Cultures & Groups - 11 July 2006

ok im asking gay dudes. no offense for that. but i just wonder what made u go gay if u werent born gay in the first place? it seems like pretty much 75% of the time al the HOTTEST guys are bi, or gay. why? why do u have to make us girls, that want u so BAD, suffer? why! i mean i have a bf, and i thank god he isnt, cuz hes such a hottie. and really sweet, he wonders too. not trying to make anyone angry. sorry if i do.

2006-07-11 17:43:53 · 20 answers · asked by Miss Carlino 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

just wondering.

im asian btw, so im not thinking of joining

2006-07-11 17:08:05 · 20 answers · asked by nude chef 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

You've heard of homophobia I'm sure, but as a gay man who has encountered name-calling and harrassment, and was even beat up once by str8 guys, I think I've become somewhat heterophobic, but only towards men.

When I see a really macho str8 guy I automatically cringe inside and get scared. I don't get scared that he'll beat me up or anything, because quite frankly I'm very built and don't act flamboyant at all, you'd never know I was gay in the first place. I still just get this fear whenever I'm around really macho str8 men, maybe I'm afriad that they'll find out and in return they'll be HOMO-phobic.

I don't know, any suggestions? I have like one or two str8 guy friends, but they're very open minded and not the "meat-head/macho" types anyway.

Oh, and if you're an ignorant A$$wipe that would like to say something like, "Why don't you just turn str8 and be normal?" Then save it, I've encountered much more harrassment from this world than you could dish out in a couple sentences.

2006-07-11 16:58:28 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

The course I am taking is

2006-07-11 16:45:38 · 8 answers · asked by Deborah W 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

i need to get a sissy tattoo and need your ideas. please give ideas and where i should get it on my body

2006-07-11 16:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by maryjo 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-07-11 16:40:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i'm trying to write a fictional story about two gay teens.

send me any sort of information that would be useful to me.
anysort. email please. just put in the answer sections that you sent it, and i'll pick the best info sent to me and that person can have best answer.

thanks.

2006-07-11 16:26:17 · 7 answers · asked by lover and fighter 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

My friend claims to be homophobic. Only he's not afraid of lesbians. Should a true homophobic be afraid of all homosexuals no matter their gender? I feel he's not really homophobic but more like he's prejudiced towards homosexual men. What do you think?

2006-07-11 16:25:03 · 17 answers · asked by carolinaz_most_wanted85 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

my friends and i are thinking about starting a GSA in our school when the school year starts, what sort of things do we need to know to make a valid argument for why we need one?

2006-07-11 16:19:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

If my male friend locked me in a room and made me gaze upon his naughty bits while he looked at toon porn, am I a flamer? I need to know! What do I tell my fathers?

2006-07-11 16:16:44 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

they've known that i'm gay for about 7 years at least. I've been with my girlfriend for 3, and we've lived together for over a year. They always said, "we don't have a problem with you being gay, we love you however you are." BUT... they never call her my girlfriend. always by her first name and often as my "roomate." I think they are afraid what relatives and friends might think. (though i get a vibe from my relatives that they all know i'm gay, too) however, tonight on the phone my dad called my girlfriend my "roomate" and it was a one on one conversation, me and him.

What is up with this? It makes me upset. But I don't want to criticize them too hard. I'm flying out to visit them in 2 days, so what could I say to them to make them understand?

2006-07-11 16:13:06 · 14 answers · asked by thirty-one characters 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-07-11 15:56:39 · 20 answers · asked by Saul3 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

why go gays think that ...just because you love somthing its right???

one religion [loves] to kill another religion ,is that right?
gay men [love] to have sex with boys , is that right?
people[ love] to have sex with animals, is that right?

just because people [love somthing ], why dose that make it ok to do??

jefery damer[ loved to eat people] dose it make it ok for him to eat people?

why is [love] a justification , for any kind of perverted acts?

2006-07-11 15:47:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-07-11 15:20:53 · 1 answers · asked by Paul W 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I really feel ashamed that I am gay. My mom knows and she said that she is 100 percent ok with it. I don't have any opposition of any kind in my family but I still feel so ashamed. I am so afraid of coming out to the world but at the same time, I want to find support groups. I'm just too scared to explore that communtiy. Is there any way I can ease into it and learn to love myself? Is it weird that everyone accepts me, but I don't?

2006-07-11 15:11:03 · 23 answers · asked by Brennen B 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

like french, russian, chinese and everything else. What are you mostly?

2006-07-11 15:09:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anna 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I know that most people from Argentina are full-blooded Europeans. I am Colombian and I am a full-blooded European. I know there must be other people in South America [excluding the Argentines] who are only "White."

2006-07-11 15:09:34 · 7 answers · asked by thedeanmanisback 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Will they ever get a life.

2006-07-11 15:05:34 · 6 answers · asked by Shikibeeks 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Is gender transformation complete or just cozmetic?

2006-07-11 14:58:55 · 17 answers · asked by cho 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I am a 16 year old gay teen and I think that I am ready to start dating soon. After I come out to other people of course. But most people don't see me as gay because I'm not effeminate and I don't wear my sexuality on my sleeve. Where can I meet other poeple (not on-line) for support, friendship and maybe even a date somewhere in the future?

2006-07-11 14:57:49 · 25 answers · asked by Brennen B 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Have you or would you arrange a 3some with your lover? Your ideal 3some? MMF, MFF, FFF, MMM? Why?

2006-07-11 14:57:03 · 11 answers · asked by debbysfemail 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I am helping my son on a sociology paper for a summer class. I need to know something about prison tattoos and their meanings. One in particular. An ink dot on the right ear lobe. I cannot find this anywhere yet I know it exists. Thanks in advance

2006-07-11 14:56:46 · 4 answers · asked by cindybd 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Please do not say myspace.

2006-07-11 14:48:46 · 5 answers · asked by Wonko 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-07-11 14:33:15 · 12 answers · asked by Dee Dee 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-07-11 14:30:28 · 19 answers · asked by Wonko 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

You say:
1.ALL societies are and governments are against gay marriage
FALSE: As a matter of fact, almost 2/3s of cultures BEFORE the Judeo peoples violently (yes, read your history: VOILENTLY) took over had some form of OFFICIAL gay marriage. In today's time several peoples still have it or have reinstated it, INCLUDING the Cherokee of the US.

2. If we allow homosexuals to marry, then what will stop us from marrying our dogs, cats, cars etc?
Wow. You guys who think of this are rather mentally ill. Who said, "If we allow Blacks the right to vote, what wil stop us from allowing our dogs, cats, cars to vote?" I'm not talking about inter-special relations here; I'm talking about two people who are just as human as anyone else.

3. It's unnatural and aberrational.
Check out the NY zoo. Two male penguins are successfully raising a baby when they had several females to choose from. Or the griffin vultures in the israeli zoo. If you want cited proof see Biological Exuberance--a book

2006-07-11 14:29:20 · 9 answers · asked by Songbird 5 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I've spoken to a lot of Africans and a lot of African Americans. Each seems to have negative views about the other. To me, we are one in the same. Why can't we get along? Why don't we repsect one another? And why do Africans and African Americans separate themselves?

2006-07-11 14:23:06 · 12 answers · asked by patience_bronx 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

she broke my heart before and i still love her i never stopped. but i dont know if her love for me is the same. we have a pretty open relationship/friendship right now. and i wouldnt want to ruin it but cant we have that and more on a physical and emotional level too?

2006-07-11 14:08:56 · 18 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

please help asap

2006-07-11 14:01:56 · 3 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Does the word "Jew" or "Jewish" refer to a race, a religion, or neither or both? I know that some people described as Jewish can get a disease or condition exclusive to them, much like blacks can get sickle-cell. Does this mean they're a different race than "Gentiles?"

2006-07-11 13:37:52 · 12 answers · asked by DashRockwood 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups