guys only?! girls can look too but u may be disgusted if ur not straight.?

Question

ok im asking gay dudes. no offense for that. but i just wonder what made u go gay if u werent born gay in the first place? it seems like pretty much 75% of the time al the HOTTEST guys are bi, or gay. why? why do u have to make us girls, that want u so BAD, suffer? why! i mean i have a bf, and i thank god he isnt, cuz hes such a hottie. and really sweet, he wonders too. not trying to make anyone angry. sorry if i do.

jesus christ. yall r mean! im sorry i said it before im not trying to piss u guys off, straight or not. im sorry if its not worded right. i have never asked a question that often like this before. if ur going to *** about it dont answer. gah! simple as that and if u have a problem with it IM me and we will talk, maybe not nicely but we can talk about why u hate my question so much! gah!

and by the way im not a tramp. just sayin. if u think u r we can have a discussion about it. gah! yall think im an idiot. look at urselfs! u fricken idiots. just a question.

ok people i see my mistake. i did make my question sound offending and im deeply sorry for that. just dont be so harsh about it i just want a straight out answer if ur pissed at me fuss at me on email or IM. if ur going to fuss in an aswer plz dont answer the damn question.

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with your question. You did a good job asking something we ask ourselves.

Being gay is not a choice. No matter what anyone tells you. Do you think we would chose to be assaulted daily. And this is on a public forum. Imagine you are on a public street with the guys that come on here. Now wouldn't you move to the other side if you were a gay guy? No sorry. I wouldn't normally choose to be beaten to death and tied to a fence. It is just not on my to do list.

I am in the unique situtuation, (or at least I think it is unique) where I was totally straight until I was 18. I did everything that a good straight boy was supposed to do. I had many female sexual partners. But something was missing. Then I met him and my whole life changed. At first I didn't want it to happen, and then I realized that it was what I was missing. The peices just fit. The puzzle came together and I was happy. For the past 20 years, that puzzle is still together. My first same sex partner has turned into my life partner. I never looked back. He is the only man I have ever had sex with and I am happy.

I still find women attractive. I could probably even have sex with them. But it just isn't in me. It would be wrong of me to live a lie and to force someone else to live that lie.

It might help you to think of it this way. Would you want to have a boyfriend who is with you only because someone is making him be with you? You deserve to have someone who loves you for you.

Thank you for asking your question.

Answer 2

I think you pretty much answered your own question. What made you go gay if you weren't born gay.... Well, maybe nothing 'cuz it's not a choice.

As much as you question might be offensive to some, I just can't believe the ignorant idiot who thinks being molested as a kid is the reason for homosexuality. The vast majority of molested kids grow up to be straight. Duh. Confusion about sex usually isn't confusion about sexual orientation. That whole line of thinking is offensive to gays and the previously abused. Fetishism is common to the general hetero population and nearly all child abusers are white hetero men -- just in case thats news, too.

As for you, I suspect that you are just attracted to what you can't have. It's not so much that gay guys are hot, it's that some gay guys are hot and you don't have a chance in hell at tasting that hotness.

I haven't a clue why you would believe lesbians would find anything disgusting about your question, BTW.

Answer 3

There is no such thing as going gay if you weren't born gay.
You have to understand that a person is born gay and don't turn gay overnight. I had a girlfriend and wanted to marry her, but deep down I knew I was gay and I am glad today that that wedding never took place. Why go around living a lie trying to satify other and hurting youself. There is nothing wrong with being gay, you are what you are and you can't change that no matter how you hide your true feelings.

Answer 4

I was abused by my middle school principle but I was and knew I was gay prior to this. That was just an episode in my life that happened and I moved the f@ck on. Yeah, its a sensitive subject but I don't dwell on it. But most of my friends were not molested and it really has nothing to do with it. Yeah, I gotta admit a lot of gay guys are hot but that seems to be a flaw too because that lasts only so long and then what do they have. I just think you are a f@g hag and you need to just go that direction. And do you really know your man? Don't be surprised. 90% of the guys i've been with consider themselves strait. Points to ponder.

Answer 5

Honey don't pay any attention tho these rude people. the gays are the meanest people I have ever ran into and sometimes I am so ashamed to be part of tat community.

They are defensive because they feel they have a lot of guilt built up in them for the lifestyle they have chose to lead and they struggle with that decision everyday in their mind heart and soul because they know it is wrong.

i know that when I sleep with a girl or girls that is is wrong and I have come to terms that I am not leading a good life, but I am enjoying it now and that's all I care about.

most gays get rude because of all the guilt, hate and hostility built up in them and they can let it out here.

just ignore them, if they can't handle the life they choose then they will pay for it in the end.

Answer 6

There really isn't a choice except for bisexuals. Gays just are -- the same way straights just are --- thank you for the implied compliment to all gay men. I see the handsome thing played out, even at my advancing age (38) and certainly among the young ones. That has always been true. It is partially that they take better care of themselves, and partially, I think, it is tied up to the genetics of homosexuality.

Have a cheery day.

Reyn
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Answer 7

There are plenty of hot straight guys too hun. I think as a whole gay men just take better care of themselves and are more narcissistic than straight men. Where a stright man throws on a pair of jeans a tee shirt and a hat, we have to sift through 400 pairs of jeans, ok now which shirt, don't forget shoes and of course the belt, now we get to hair. Never light a match near a homo's bathroom while he is getting ready. (I use spray adhesive in my hair).

I don't think any of us are TRYING to make you jealous or any of that, it's just that straight men don't give a crap what they look like a lot of times and it shows, not saying this is all of them, but as a majority we sisters of the loin cloth tend to put a bit more thought into our look then most of the men NOT playing on the pink team.

Hope this helps...... }:^)~

Answer 8

Not too many "choose" to be gay. Several of my gay friends said that they'd rather be straight because one was disowned by her parents, one was disowned by her father's family (and not exactly on the best of terms with her mother), and another had gotten the crap beatten out of him--twice.

If it would have nade their families happyt hey would have, but perhaps maybe like for you, carrying on sexual relations with a female disgusts them (well, the guys.) you know what I mean.

In Kansas, where I'm from, you gotta have a little bit of guts to come out. Remember, this is the land of Republicans, Fred Pheps, and crazy nurses who shoot and blow up places that give abortions. We have churches protest outside of our (very few) gay clubs.

As for why they are so damn good looking? They don't do it to torment you. They probably don't even care that you think they're cute, or taht you're tormented. But they probably DO care if your boyfriend is!

Answer 9

I don’t think anyone “Goes gay”. If there is even the slightest chance you might start “playing for the other team”, your not straight, your bi, maybe just more geared towards the opposite sex. If your truly straight, you could never get turned on by another guy. Not that I would know about that….…….

Answer 10

If not born, it could probably be a lot of things. Lack of attention as a child in general growing up can lead to a lack of growth in certain sections of the brain. Also, Anyone who has been molested as a child will tend to Be hypsersexual as they get older, Or have wierd fetishes and fantasies.