she broke my heart before and i still love her i never stopped. but i dont know if her love for me is the same. we have a pretty open relationship/friendship right now. and i wouldnt want to ruin it but cant we have that and more on a physical and emotional level too?
2006-07-11 14:08:56 · 18 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This is a difficult question.
First of all, you need to think about ther elationship you had before, how it was great, and how it wasn't so. Think about her personality; is she the needy type who needs someone to love her?? Maybe she THINKS she loves you now.
I've been there, but didn't do that, though it was god-awfully tempting. She was into drugs and left me to be with someone else without even telling me--just upped and left. After that was over she said she still loved me and that was cool, but I aready had someone else and though I DO genuinely love her, it's not at al in the same way as it was.
2006-07-11 14:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Songbird 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
How long ago did you end the relationship, and how long have you been friends after? I say if you have been "friends" for a while, maybe that gave you both a chance to really know each other better, without the pressures of a relationship, in the other hand, if it has not been too long, why not keep it as a friendship and really think about why you broke up in the first place, you have some great advice from a few people here, follow it, give yourself some time, and if she broke your heart before its better for you to thinks whats best for yourself,,,
2006-07-11 14:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by MANGA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great answer backbreaker! glad to know you have no testosterone problem! grow up! as I've always said...it may work for a while, but the truth always comes back to bite ya. there was a reason for the break up to begin with. you should calculate the risk by asking yourself honestly if she would hurt you again. don't sugar coat it to yourself. that would make you naive.
2006-07-11 14:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by kari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
second chances are nice but honestly...i've tried to get back together with my exbfs and it never works. it works for awhile but then it always ends up being a argument with one of us yelling that the other hasn't changed. but do what you feel is right...in your heart. maybe girls r different!
2006-07-11 14:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Did you say she broke your heart before, too? Because that would be a pattern.
RUN! DONT WALK!
--Nick
2006-07-11 16:58:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i felt the same way... ive been in the same boat as you and I reccomend that you dont...you'll only get your heart broken again
good luck wiht whatever dicision you make
2006-07-11 14:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Chef Shortie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way your avatar lookin' you should get with a boy like me but your a lesbo anyway. I want to know what do girls see in girls any way. Basicaly you
2006-07-11 14:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by J money$$$ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhm...well if you think that you both matured and can hadle it then go for it! just take a chance because you never know how perfect something can turn out to be...
2006-07-11 14:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by letsparty105 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to Led Zep's "Heartbreaker" again, very closely this time. Especially the "GO AWAY!!!!!" part.
2006-07-11 14:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A second chance is always good, especially if both people have matured. Good luck:)
2006-07-11 14:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋