Cultures & Groups - 11 June 2006

I have only had one real relationship before, I'm a girl and they were a guy, and they turned out to be gay. I have moved, and my best friend here is a gay guy but I find myself attracted to him. I think I'm bisexual, but I live in an area and with a family where I'd rather just focus on guys. The only ones I can be attracted to are gay though. Anyone have any advice?

2006-06-11 23:46:42 · 15 answers · asked by eveofhyrule 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I have a friend that recently questioned his sexual prefrence. He is 24 and from Indian culture. According to his family, this is a big "NO, NO!" He's experimented here and there, but never had sex or an actual realationship.

Over the last month, after my convincing, he set out to try it again. A guy picked him up at a book store and they went back to his place for drinks. After a couple hours of chatting they started to make-out. Over the clothes, my friend reached over and started to stroke the other guys ****. Almost immedietly, my friend grabbed his things and took off in fear!

Please keep in mind, this was a big step for my friend. Now he is convinced that he is straight again. BUT, if it walks like a duck, and acts like a duck........

What should the next step be? I want to show my support but he refuses to even mention the word "gay." What can I do to further assist, without making him angry? I hate seeing my friend in pain because of the confusion.

2006-06-11 23:01:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I'd like your thoughts and opinions.

2006-06-11 22:11:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-06-11 20:20:05 · 22 answers · asked by Unknown 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

how does a guy know that hes gay? ive been fantasizing about my best friend lately, but ive been straight my entire life, ive never ever been into guys at all. is it weird that im constantly thinking about my friends muscles, lips, eyes, and watever. is it possible to just have a little man crush but still be straight? is it even normal to turn gay when youre 18?

2006-06-11 20:18:47 · 31 answers · asked by cliff_soccer 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

What do you like about it? What don't you like? How would you descibe the people? The weather? Nature? The political system?

2006-06-11 20:00:45 · 14 answers · asked by Lotte T 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Everyday there's like 5 new questions asking why the haters hate us so much. To me I just accept that there are always some people who will hate me and move on, so they don't have any power over me. That's not to say I won't report abuse or refute their fault logic, but I don't understand why some people allow themselves to be hurt by such comments. The way I see it if someone has a problem with gays its their problem not mine.

2006-06-11 19:29:52 · 7 answers · asked by sooziebeaker 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I see many brunettes,male and female, acting stupid just as stupid as a 'blonde' girl would! Do you hate when other blondes deliberatly act stupid just because they think it's cool?

2006-06-11 19:17:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-06-11 18:45:47 · 6 answers · asked by kriti 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-06-11 18:20:34 · 10 answers · asked by miraclewhip 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

that is most remarkable to you. (Some that was born and raised in another country, other than the US, please answer)

2006-06-11 18:04:58 · 2 answers · asked by calibomb11 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-06-11 17:59:14 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

My collection is in the site:

http://www.geocities.com/vibgy/homosexuality_in_animals.html

Thankyou verymuch.

2006-06-11 17:38:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-06-11 17:35:08 · 14 answers · asked by Bishop David F. Milne DD 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-06-11 17:10:23 · 10 answers · asked by Veronica 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

My girl is out of town. We live together with my kids. My ex husband pays the rent & cable bill. He asked to come over to watch World Cup at 12noon b/c he doesn't have a tv. I said okay, I'll be out all day running errands, watch it. GF is pissed, says I have no respect for her stuff and it's unacceptable for him to be at the house. I have to be nice to him, right? He's paying for rent&cable and loves the kids. I'll have to deal w him for 15 more years. She threatened to put all her stuff in storage or dump me. Says I shouldn't have anything to do w/ him since he's my ex. I'm a LESBIAN! I'm never going to get back with him.

2006-06-11 16:52:31 · 18 answers · asked by theobromo77 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

any girls want to email me?

2006-06-11 16:29:16 · 6 answers · asked by phoenix_blaze_3 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

its not a sin, GOD doesnt hate me becausee i'm gay he knows and i'm still here, GOD put me on the earth for a reason regardless of my sexual orinatation . i'm not going to hell. nobody knows what GOD really wants we weren't alive back in his time we don't personally know him except maybe through spirtuallity. The Bible was written by different people and probably edited many times so no one knows for sure if those are really his words .

2006-06-11 16:28:25 · 22 answers · asked by gfd g 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-06-11 16:23:34 · 2 answers · asked by lavacy 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-06-11 15:45:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

she really thinks I am straight. Not for sure if she will still want to hang out with me? Should I tell her or not?

2006-06-11 15:39:38 · 14 answers · asked by unclemo92 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i've heard that in the old ancient china, male servants must be neutered before they're allow to serve the king and the members of his family. what kind of procedures have they done for the male servants - have their penis removed or the testicles?

2006-06-11 15:36:20 · 2 answers · asked by Tiffany 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-06-11 15:21:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I know telling your family and friends you are bi, lesbian, or gay can be very hard to do. Do you have any good "coming out" stories? Stories where they reacted differently then you thought they would, in a funny way, happy, or any other different way? How did you tell them? People often feel better afterwards because they can be truly themselves.

2006-06-11 15:19:02 · 6 answers · asked by MindStorm 6 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-06-11 14:57:43 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-06-11 14:02:19 · 19 answers · asked by Jeffrey 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-06-11 13:52:07 · 6 answers · asked by A man of constant sorrow 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I don't understand why so many people have hate for those who aren't 'straight'...What business is it of anyone else's anyway what two consenting adults do in their bedroom? And why do the GOP hide behind the Bible when they create anti-gay legislation, when there is supposed to be separation of church and state(which is a fairytale when the GOP is in power!)

2006-06-11 13:44:35 · 19 answers · asked by carledwards99andtonystewart20fan 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I realize I am stepping out on a limb here, 'cause God knows this is a tender subject. But I am asking you, with love in my heart towards all, how long will I be persecuted for something I had no part of - but punished for simply because I am white? Hasn't every culture done another wrong in history? Most cultures have been slaves at one point in time, have they not? Thank God we evolved to a more civil society though slavery has left its stain on the human race - to both sides who participated (those who bought and those who sold).

But my point (and question) is this, here in America what will it take to make ammends for the wrong white people did before my time to black people? At what point can we get past this and move forward? When can we say the slate is wiped clean and now we can begin again as Americans, diverse but as one?

2006-06-11 13:05:41 · 16 answers · asked by Helga_the_hermit 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Why didn't it become the same everywhere?

2006-06-11 12:32:41 · 8 answers · asked by crystal89431 6 in Other - Cultures & Groups