We were estranged (her choice) since April, and it has been a difficult time for me since April, as I loved my wife and still do. Her behaviour had changed noticeably, and with what I know now I suspect the cancer was the cause.
Her family had always hated our marriage (we'd eloped) and so I was not told nor given an opportunity to attend the service. She passed away on the 19th after a brief battle, and I've only learned of it today thanks to her lawyer sending mine a death certificate.
Needless to say I am grieving, and just can't stay with you while I go through this.
I will be back.
While I'm gone I hope you will love one another as you'd be loved. Bear in mind I am not the only one grieving this night, and there are many who need your love, not your hatred or your fear. Be kind. Life is brief and when it is done, there will be no chance for you to make ammends with each other.
Value Life. Value Love. Value each other as brothers and sisters who are all seeking.
2006-08-31
13:17:21
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