I welcome input from everyone who has something to contribute, but I am especially eager to hear from Christians.
I have a friend who has been separated from his wife for nearly four years. They are both Born Again Christians, and she, especially, professes to be very active and faithful. They live in separate households, and she refuses to have anything to do with him. She will only talk to him about their daughter, and will hang up on him if the conversation turns personal in any way. She refuses to go to counselling, to discuss their problems, or to get a divorce.
About once every 6 weeks, she invites him over for sex. It is entirely at her discretion, and when she is in the mood. If he says no, she does not allow him to have their child on the weekends. He is not allowed to ask for sex when he wants it.
It seems to me like a convenient way to have sex and pretend you aren't sinning, as I see no characteristics of a real marriage here. What are your thoughts, please?
2006-07-26
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