Psychology - May 2007

can anyone tell me ,what happens to me (and why),when i have the feeling i've been there before, know what's going to happen in a split second, and even know what someones going to say... let alone dreams caming true!! i know i'm not alone ,but there's times i feel frightened . !! WHY DOES IT HAPPEN?

2007-05-26 10:46:57 · 7 answers · asked by luciana v 1

2007-05-26 10:28:52 · 4 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5

I have never, (to answer that question). I want to know from a purely psychological point of view, are the experiences of temporary influence worth the resources? Why do you do it (that is for all non-physiologically addictive drugs)?

2007-05-26 09:47:59 · 5 answers · asked by London 5

2007-05-26 09:05:45 · 31 answers · asked by debra w 2

Just wondering to what extent our name affects who we are. Do we adapt our personality according to what we have been named?

2007-05-26 08:46:11 · 43 answers · asked by thatsnotevenaquestion 4

how to protect yourself from rejection and hurt?

2007-05-26 08:42:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently hired a friend and have been very disappointed with his performance. Mainly his issues are with basic professional ettiquete. For example, he disregards emails and phone calls, has poor follow up on tasks, poor task completion rates, uses online chat a lot, takes multiple personal phone calls during the day.

Typically I could overlook some of these issues if the person was more productive and responsive.

Unfortunately this individual needs to set an example, and he is, but not a good one.

I am usually a very direct person but I am so taken aback by the lack of professionalism that I am not sure where to start. This person is not 20 years old and should be much more professionally evolved.

I hired him based on his skill set not because he was a friend.

If this person wasn't a friend I would have no problems having this conversation, so I am looking for advice mainly on how to appropriately deal with an employee who is also a friend.

2007-05-26 08:41:08 · 5 answers · asked by nerdherder 2

2007-05-26 08:39:09 · 3 answers · asked by ms_pink_cutie 1

6 months ago I finally agreed to meet with someone I met online. It was brilliant, and just for a sexual relationship with no strings. I started meeting more people and often going back to the people I had already met with. Now, though, I no longer just meet with them and other people that I know not just through the internet just at the weekend. Up to five and sometimes almost everyday of the week.

Im happy but I wonder.....have I gone too far?

2007-05-26 08:32:17 · 24 answers · asked by Free 3

???

2007-05-26 08:20:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

noisey, and tonight i said no i got 34 hours kip, anyway why carn,t he sleep round their house i am fed up with them always round here,one,s a right scrounger and another came round 12.30 banging my door drunk a 14 year old the other night, they get on my nerves and try to take advantage and i am not being made a fool of anymore by them

2007-05-26 07:33:54 · 14 answers · asked by hairy armpits 2

2007-05-26 04:52:29 · 5 answers · asked by bumoh_123 1

that are close, friends, and cant figure out why! I am not cocky or rude. and i am not trying to piss anyone off, actually i try not to. i get along well with most people and do well at work. the people that i piss off somehow are usually REALLY bent and they dont confront me but act out against me usually in public around other people (just happened recently) is this normal to have this from some people. I'd stop being friend with this imparticular person but we hang out with the same people so I run in to him all the time. Usually I dish it right back at them but I'd rather know what their (or my?) problem is and fix it to end the BS

2007-05-26 04:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by boardr 1

I hate being depressed and stressed out working like a dog at work and at home and being at the receiving end all the time. I hate this life I hate this world. It is so cruel unjust and cruel !! Why does it just happen to me ?

2007-05-26 04:22:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday morning, I was doing my regular routine when some weirdo drove by(never seen him before) i noticed he stared at me and it made me uncomfortable for some reason, 5 mins im walking in the shopping center and hes just sitting on the street, making it look like hes gonna turn, but hes just staring at me, and isnt moving, there ARE NO CARS AROUND,...i thought"okay thats weird"....then the 3rd time(about 20 mins later), im by the beach, and he drives BY AGAIN and stares me, at this point, im freaking out, and wondering wtf? then i walk on the pier to make it look like im gonna go walk for a long time, but i do it half way, just to see if he'd follow me, i started walking towards these quiet houses, quiet road, and I thought to myself, IF I SEE that f-ker one more time, Im going to cops, and I turned around and he was driving by again!!!, 4 times within 30 mins...lord, i started walking towards to the police station which was close, and the cop drove me home..

2007-05-26 04:16:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wanting an opinion whether learning new motor skills (for example learning to use the left hand improve intelligence or declarative memory.

2007-05-26 03:20:47 · 3 answers · asked by nikos k 1

I used a paralininal recording last night before going to sleep, in the middle of the night I pissed the bed. What the hell is in thoes recordings that would cause me to do that?

2007-05-26 03:09:50 · 2 answers · asked by ThinkaboutThis 6

2007-05-26 02:46:05 · 8 answers · asked by lex1979x 3

2007-05-26 02:39:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sit by yourself on the beach waiting for peace.

2007-05-26 02:37:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i realized im slow in some areas...like in the academics, learning something new im quick, but in practical situations like card games and just practical stuff im pretty slow...how do i improve this side of mine...i want to balance out.

2007-05-26 02:36:07 · 3 answers · asked by vincent m 2

How do i realease my anger in healthy doses and not allow it to boil up to a point where i just scream and shout and get all emotional?
I think i get very upset by waht people do/say to me at school and i cant really do anything about it but sit and listen (no i cant piss them off back more than i already am, and it dosnt seem to make any differnce anyway)
And when i get home on some occasions i just burst and...this isnt a little tantrum, its huge. I insult, i scream, i shout, i critizise.

People are so cruel at times, and i know even i am, but the problem is i cant take peoples critizism no matter how much i fight back, or say im hurt to their face!

please help im tired of having so many negative thoughts that turn into one big negative thought at the only way of getting rid of it is verbally!

2007-05-26 02:22:30 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica_Rabbit 3

Yesterday, my boyfriend had this huge fight with me over me not answering his phone which I didn't hear the phone ringing. He kept shouting expetives to me on the phone. He told me to pack up and go home. I was cohabiting with him. After which, we reached home. He was throwing my stuff and he kicked my laptop really hard twice. I wanted to take his things but he pushed me and I almost fell. I then slapped him and he punched me on my nose. I started crying and his parents saw it. He's totally changed. He could still laughed at me when I was holding on to my nose and even slapped me on my arm saying sorry like he just stepped on my feet. I feel so hurt and I have no one to turn too. I'm currently staying at his house under the care of his parents but he's not here because I don't want my mum to see this. I kept having flashbacks of this incident and I feel really awful. I have no one to turn too also. He wasn't like this previously. I feel so hurt just thinking back of the good old times

2007-05-26 02:13:45 · 11 answers · asked by rachie t 1

choose... it's all about the choice.

2007-05-26 02:10:10 · 13 answers · asked by patzky99 6

I'm persian. I wanted to move to the USA. But impedimenta, all the things stopped me. I'm totally disappointed. Don't know what to do. USA was my dream, i thought i was gonna realize my dream, but i guess i was wrong. What do you suggest?

2007-05-25 23:48:55 · 5 answers · asked by I'm so freakin' gay 1

I used to have some really super close friends that I could depend on for anything and felt totally comfortable with--we kind of split before h.s grad. and since, I haven't felt that same kind of closeness and security--it has been 4 years now--and I feel so isolated and I'm finally pursuing my dream career--going to college for what I really want to do and I'm finding out that nothing is worth it all unless I have close friends to enjoy it with. I've moved a long ways from home--thought I could start over in a new place--I used to be so obsessed with money and material things, and I finally get it--that none of it matters if you can't enjoy it with people that give your life meaning. I want to have a relationship--I haven't ever really dated before--just flings--I had a really close guy friend in h.s.--It was comforting to be around someone that knew you so well--and totally lifted you up with support and motivation. I've felt lost since and can't experience that kind of high.

2007-05-25 23:15:42 · 7 answers · asked by surfer chica 1

monster in a year's time?And why do they say that when someone is very paranoid(more than normal)and secretive that drugs are most likely involved?

2007-05-25 23:06:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

or they pretend that they did not see u etc.

MOSTLY women do so.

By the way, I am a female.

2007-05-25 22:40:36 · 9 answers · asked by sj 1

This year I started my second new school within a year. It's good and i've made heaps of new friends and they are really nice.

But the thing is when they talk about people or things that have happened in the past (that I havn't been around for) I find it very awkward and left out.

What can I do when these conversations arise?

2007-05-25 22:22:23 · 6 answers · asked by ★☆✿❀ 7

Do we, as human beings, really know the reasons why do we exist in this world? Why did God create us or why did He choose us?

Guys, have u ever felt bored going through this life? Doing the same activities and meet almost the same people in every single day?
Don’t know why, this time, I’m experiencing that kind of feeling…

And I'm feeling the descent of my life…
The descent of my spirit, of my achievement, of my performance, even of religious services…

I know that’s not good for me…I know it’s bad to have that kind of feeling…

But hey! I’m just a human being… =(

Though I know having that feeling can cause something bad for me, why do I let it grow in me?

I’m scared I can’t stop it…
I feel too comfort to stay in my comfort zone… that what makes me afraid, I’m afraid I can’t get out from my comfort zone…

I hope someday I can think out of the box and leave my comfort zone… hopefully =p

can anybody help me..?
i need some suggestion..

thanks a bunch..

2007-05-25 22:01:36 · 12 answers · asked by i am 1