Is there a way to end my life..?

Question

I hate being depressed and stressed out working like a dog at work and at home and being at the receiving end all the time. I hate this life I hate this world. It is so cruel unjust and cruel !! Why does it just happen to me ?

Answer 1

There are hundreds of ways you can die, but I suspect some lives are not meant to be easy. Nobody has yet proved it, but research through hypnotism into individuals' lives before birth, all agreed that they had to be persuaded to return here, that there was some unfinished business they had to pit right.

If this is true, then the rotten time you are having is probably what you came back to deal with. Things can get unbearable for us, but I have no idea how we are supposed to benefit from this. At least you won't have to come back & do it again if you tough it out?

I was depressed for years, it was a real struggle getting through the days. When I finally analyzed it - what made it easier & what made it worse - it eventually lifted! Now, I can't even remember what I felt like. It's a mystererious business.

Answer 2

If your life is REALLY that bad, then why the hell don't you just CHANGE it? Don't complain about your job and think about ending your life, find a different job that you actually like doing! Move somewhere else, take a vacation if you can. There are more ways to get away from it all aside from just killing yourself. You might say that you don't have the money, but isn't not having money better than not having life in general? What's the worst that could happen if you make some changes, you end up broke or die? Isn't that what you'd want to happen anyway?

Answer 3

I am sorry you feel as you do. Without knowing what you mean by torturing it is hard to say, but nothing is worth ending your life. If you are happy until you have to deal with your husband and in laws then your life is not pathetic, their lives are and in turn they need to make yours bad. Don't take it from them. My suggestion is this. Tell them to piss off. Treat them like children. If they give you gruff, ignore them and if they press you into why you are not answering them tell them you will only talk to people who are adult and can have an intelligent conversation and not be rude and degrading. If you are already at a point that you are contemplating suicide then throw caution to the wind. If your husband says he is going to physically hit you or even does anything that you feel he will, tell him if he does then you are going to the police and have him arrested. Its time for you to take your life back. If he is treating you bad such as that he says you cannot have your girlfriends over when you want or so on, tough luck, have them over. Do what you want, within the confines of your marriage vows. If you are unhappy in your marriage fix it or get out of it before you move on. But you should NEVER EVER end your life or even consider it because someone else is being degrading. That means they win and you lose and all your family and friends lose because they will miss you and be more distraught than you can imagine without you being there. I hope this helps, but feel free to contact me if you need a sound board and let me know how things go.

Answer 4

Surely there are many ways to end a life,but the point is,why?You did not give this life to yourself.So,who are you to end it?No religion involved but just plain and straight thinking.We all pass through the bad and difficult periods of life and the proven law of nature ensures that things always change from worst to better and the best.Cool down and think.Do not hesitate to discuss with well wishers and do not feel shy in taking their help.Slowly but surely,things would begin to look up and improve.You have a long way to go and live a happy life.Good luck.

Answer 5

Don't,. It's for your own good. Work is a part of life and is practically inevitable, and death, according to both scientits and laymen, happen to 1 in every 1 person, so why hasten it? I believe that you can enjoy life by finding some excitement in it. Put spice into your life by pondering about the blessings you currently have. I believe that every depressed person still has hope - this comes from first-hand experience. I'd suggest that you go see a Christian psychiatrist - they'll help you and you'll go a long way from being depressed : )

Answer 6

You're not alone. Depression is quite common to varying degrees. Everyone has stress of one kind or another. Everybody has problems. Do you really think the rest of us are all walking around without a care? Of course not. We all go through tough times. See a psychiatrist, or a psychologist. Talk to some one. There is no shame in seeking help from a professional. They can help you look at things differently so they are not so bleak. There is even medication to help with depression. Don't give up my friend.

Answer 7

"If life doens't seem worth living, it's probably the liver." That means that if you are finding your life rather intolerable, it's your outlook on life that is giving you those feelings, not the situation itself. Talk to a counselor or a psychologist about your feelings; a good one will help you to get a more positive perspective on your situation. Even though things may seem very hopeless, there are always ways to make them better, ways you have overlooked or not even thought of.

For example, are there things you could do at your workplace to improve your situation? Have you talked to your boss about the possibility of changing jobs or moving up the ladder? If you show him/her that you're a good worker, and genuinely interested in contributing to the success of his/her business, he/she may give you some new opportunities.

In your home situation, if you're doing chores every day, see if you can negotiate a "day off" each week, perhaps by working just a little bit harder each of the other six days. Perhaps you can rearrange your chore schedule to allow this.

If you are at the receiving end of a lot of negative stuff, talk to the person or people who are dishing it out, and ask them why they feel the need to do that, that it is getting on your nerves, and that you want it to stop. Sometimes people who do this are unaware of the effect it has on the recipient.

If you want changes to happen in your life, most of the time you are the one to make them happen, or at least to start the ball rolling.

Answer 8

just happen to YOU?! Please, I'm 14 and I have more sense than to kill myself just because things aren't going my way! At this time, I'm going through exam preparation at school, at home, my stepmom is pregnant, my mom and dad are arguing, my stepdad is trying to get rid of my dad. I have 3 other siblings to look after, because this 4th one will need the attention. I'Ve been talking to a school councilor weekly for nearly 3 months, And i have this frigging head ache that wont go away...actually it's getting annoying....but anywho..

If you think YOU'VE got problems, at least know you're not the only one, because that would be stupid, now wouldn;t it? And ending your life because of it.....well, the only thing it shows is You're weak.

Answer 9

Sure, there are many ways to end your life. I wouldn't advise it though.

You're suffering from a chemical imbalance in your brain, and you're definitely not the only one who feels that way! This chemical balance can be treated. See a psychiatrist as soon as you can. Make sure you tell them it's important for you to get in right away. If you feel like you might actually do something to hurt yourself (or if you want to), check yourself in to a behavioral health facility.

You're in real danger. Do something about it.

Answer 10

kill yourself in a hospitial so they can use your organs to be donated to those poor people who want to live but cant without organs donated , but tell a nurse where you will be found in 20 minits ..... or you can change your attitude and everyonelses attitude towards you at the same time by beleiving in a positive mental attitude at all times possible ...dont be a foolist live life to the fullest , love your life to the fullest !!!! coz youre only here once, this is now so here and now beleive in what you can achieve before its too late, if you believe in yourself you may succeed at almost anything you put your mind to, if someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, foregive them. For they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to who you open your heart to. If someone loves you, love them back uncondittionally, not only because they love you but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you never would have seen or felt without them .Make everyday count.Apprichiate every moment and take from it everything you can, for you may never be able to expierience it again.Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen. remember a problem shared is a problem halved