Psychology - April 2007

So imagine you are kind of "seeing" this guy and he says that he loves only after about 2 months...you deffinitly don't love him. You try and cover, but end up saying it back just to get him to shut up....4 months later, you are miserable and feel almost like he is stalking you....you can't seem to get rid of him...he is always there, every day. He calls you all the time, even when you are in class, and trying to sleep, and he leaves a hundred messages on your messenger and email...How would you tell him that you don't love him without totally ruining him and making him go crazy????

2007-04-18 17:57:07 · 9 answers · asked by neener892004 2

Recently I have been having these weird episodes, usually at night, and after doing some reading, I still can't figure out what it is. I'm overcome with an intense feeling of worry, like something is really wrong. I don't know what or why. My heart races and it seems like I can feel my blood pumping through my veins. I can't relax, I can't shake it off, and I can't make myself feel better. I have been pretty stressed out lately, but it doesn't seem like that would cause it since I have a pretty high stress life anyway. I don't feel depressed, and I don't feel like my world is crashing in and I don't want to die(that's what most of the medical websites described panic attacks as). I just feel like something is wrong or someone is in danger, and I get a really helpless feeling. Any help or advice would be appreciated. Thanks

2007-04-18 17:56:28 · 13 answers · asked by curious 3

30 years ago, I wrote a manuscript and quite stupidly cast a friends mother in a very negative light and certainly embarrassed her as well as her children - it was never published, but they did read my work - I don't know what was going through my head - I do not normally do mean things but in retrospect, this was not nice. I tried to bring out an aspect of her life that would have been best kept private and did not ask her permission - it will never be published.

It was mostly ignored at the time and we never had a falling out.. I remained friends with all involved - So - do I offer a long overdue apology to Mother [ now near 90 and sharp ] and son or do I just let it go.. I do suffer it sometimes but only am concerned about their feelings - would a long overdue apology re-visit a forgotten hurt or be welcome?

2007-04-18 17:20:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

In a house there lived a mom with two daughters.One day the mom died and their relatives came for the funeral.Among them one young man looked very smart.The elder daughter was fully impressed by him but,she did not propose him.After the funeral was over all the relatives went away.
The elder daughter was thinking about him everyday.Few days passed....

One day the elder daughter killed her sister...

Do you know why...?

2007-04-18 17:14:45 · 14 answers · asked by salai_arasu_m 2

2007-04-18 17:06:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so, 1/3rd of Americas youth need to be evaluted and potentially locked up in mental wards!

2007-04-18 16:54:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Was he inherently psychotic and violent? Or did something specific in life happen to him to cause him to commit these crimes? Did it build up over time? Did he snap due to a traumatic incident?

2007-04-18 16:47:26 · 28 answers · asked by BUNguyenI 2

Is it possible that I've been an extrovert my whole life and not realized it because it has been buried under heaps of social anxiety? When I get drunk I am real talkative, I love big parties, and the one time in my life that I was recieving treatment for my anxiety (lexapro), I joined theater class and tried out for a play. Is it possible that I am actually an extrovert incapable of expressing my true self because I am frozen by fear?

2007-04-18 16:42:28 · 17 answers · asked by ssmith 3

2007-04-18 16:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by ragdefender 6

That sometimes people will recall "fake" memories...and that these fake memories may be noticed when people don't recall it "in context." So...what does that mean? how do you recall something in context, hence...a real memory..?

2007-04-18 16:15:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i am angry i sit in the dark and think a bunch of evil twisted things and i break or burn things

2007-04-18 16:05:29 · 9 answers · asked by Jacob 3

Im feel like im gonna get fired...

just been in the job for a month. then one of the customers commented about me.."she's slow" to my boss...maybe i am, but im really doing my best...then one of the customers was upset and i happened to be the one she vented out on...my other boss noticed i can get sensitive...he even gave me a food...my esteem is going down the drain....ever felt like this??? i realized im the only one who can help myself, but i dont have anyone to share thi prob with.... i think about getting fired and be dictated im incapable...i wish i were smarter and quick.....i feel like my boss doesnt even trust me anymore..

2007-04-18 16:00:22 · 7 answers · asked by vincent m 2

ex; church seemed boring + meaningless back then but know you appriciate it

2007-04-18 15:37:42 · 11 answers · asked by kp000000 1

2007-04-18 15:37:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating my best friend for 3 years, and have lived with him for 2. He has not proposed yet, although one minute we're looking for rings and the next minute he's saying he can't afford it. Our sex life is not good (he lasts for 2 minutes), and recently I have been meeting an old friend to fill in the sex department. I clean up after my bf and his dogs like I'm his maid, and his excuse is that he "works". He does not give me $ or pay for my living expenses, so I don't see that as an excuse. Needless to say, he doesn't make me feel "special" anymore either.

What would you do? I love him but I'm contemplating moving out. Is this just a rutt that some couples go through?

2007-04-18 15:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by LadyMango 1

is this sentence is right, can u explain plz.becoz i m dealing with one of such kind

2007-04-18 15:20:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do to motivate yourself to think that you can do it !? What can I do to think that I can do whatever it is!!!!?

2007-04-18 15:14:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

im doing a research paper on Frankenstein and "The Effects of Rejection" is the topic .. i jus need some ideas, i already have 3 pages, i jus need a lil help please

2007-04-18 15:13:23 · 3 answers · asked by luciouzz_prmami 1

We committed acts that are sometimes unjustifiably wrong. But how can we reconcile our religious/moral stand on it?

2007-04-18 15:06:58 · 17 answers · asked by hermecshec 2

I kno some people in the group and i have known them for about a year. We are friends but not good friends. Now i would like to hang out with their group. Im shy and i dont kno how to approach the group. I think they will think im werid fornot having approached them again and i dont kno how to become good friends with the group. Im still in high school and i would like to sit + hang out with them at lunch. How can i accomplish this and i kinda need specific help on this situation not just answers that say dont be shy anymore.

2007-04-18 15:04:06 · 6 answers · asked by Peter p 1

Its repeated over & over persons who lose control & kill fall within poor socialization skills. Unable to communicate effectively with either/both genders. What common denominator seems to be shared by these persons?

Need you to do some brainstorming for me here.

I work at a community college and I would like to present to one of the professors ideas of a course or seminar addressing this "slowly boiling pot " of anger that flares up once in a while in educational facilities (and work environments) like what happened at Virginia Tech.

On Wednesday, April 25th an "Emergency Procedures Workshop" is to be held here on campus and I would like to send your & my ideas to one of the instructors so that she can include them in what gets addressed. This may trigger a new seminar or workshop to deeply study into the makings of those individuals who make the decision to step 'over the line' and destroy others.

What do you think? How do you feel? What is your opinion?

041807 9:02

2007-04-18 15:03:11 · 7 answers · asked by YRofTexas 6

Suicide is usually the result of someone cryptically crying out for attention or help. If the secret code goes unbroken for too long then the person can paint themselvs into a corner where they believe they have no choice but to act on their threats and kill themselves.

They often fantasize over the attention they will get at their funerals and burials and even when their bodies are found.

---HOWEVER: We know that life tends to eventually go on and the person will be somewhat forgotten once again, only now, being dead, they can't remind anyone of them so easily.

This is why I think we are seeing a new trend of TAKING PEOPLE WITH THEM AS THEY GO. It is a sort of insurance policy that they will finally be noticed, heard, and remembered! Cho took things to new heights and left video and photos and writings to be seen after his death as though he rose from the grave to have the final word.

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO, BUT WE NEED TO BE CAREFUL BECAUSE THIS IS A NEW TREND THAT SEEM

2007-04-18 15:01:03 · 10 answers · asked by NONAME 4

imagine u v been in the same routine for yrs, family school friends and what-not..u have tried to change...or thign never turn out the way u do..what would u do? i feel liek that sometiems...like climbing up a mountain forever but no actually reaching it ever.

2007-04-18 14:52:31 · 6 answers · asked by nycgreekguy004 1

2007-04-18 14:50:21 · 3 answers · asked by j t 1

In the high school you go or went to, were there a lot of fat, chubby students, or were they mostly skinny?

Where I go, everyone is SKINNY. It's predominantly Asian, and yes, I know many of them are petite, but it drives me crazy how SKINNY they are. They all have this kind of body: http://img.timeinc.net/time/asia/features/ayumi_hamasaki/photoessay/5.jpg

I think the obesity pandemic in children/teens is HIGHLY exaggerated.

So were there many overweight students at your school? Or was being a Size 0 considered normal?

2007-04-18 14:48:02 · 8 answers · asked by Please Don't Disturb 2

There are "Pro ana" sites which say its a lifestile & its your choice but is it really a mental problem?? Personley I think its a little of both I think u have 2 chose not 2 eat but then it becomes a mental thing ??? Im not really shure I have never had it or known any1 that did thats So i guess im just wondering what other people think??? ~thanks~

2007-04-18 14:37:25 · 12 answers · asked by shaunda w 1

ive been having very strange dreams lately about topics, topics i have never even thought of in real life untill these dreams crept up. i have been going through stressfull times lately, and am well aware that is a contributing factor. i have talked to theripists about it. i tell them what i know they are going to say and they say "youve got it all figured out" then offer me solutions but none of them work. these dreams are creepy. for the first time since i was like, ten, im waking up crying, screaming, and most recently i was actually fighting my fiance in my sleep, hitting him and all. (i wasnt fighting him in my dream, but he had his arm around me so it filterd in). nothing the theripists have given me helps, how can i stop this? i am loosing sooo much sleep over it

2007-04-18 14:31:33 · 0 answers · asked by Ashley M 7

I am terrified that something like this will happen to me. A few months ago we had the same thing happen in SLC but it was in a mall. I work at a hospital and I was scared walking down the halls today. Does anyone else feel this way?

2007-04-18 14:30:57 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3

mine is being imbaressment,..dont know why :D

2007-04-18 14:15:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-18 14:14:53 · 3 answers · asked by channy 2