Psychology - January 2007

2007-01-13 21:59:10 · 9 answers · asked by charudutta t 1

This cousin, although I think he means well, thinks he is the most thoughtful person around. There are instances at school where it's like a curse to be related to him. I'll be in the middle of a conversation of with a friend [who doesn't like him] and he'll think I'm evil because I won't talk to him.
On other occasions, like when me and my mom go to the stores or something and we ask him to tag along, he starts asking other people if they want to come too. He thinks he's being polite by taking everybody's wishes into consideration, but he isn't the one planning the outting, and he doesn't take it into consideration how this other person he's invited doesn't really know us all that well "but it's okay because he's your third cousin".

There are times I'd like to point out these faults, but then he counters it with all of my faults. I don't know how to deal with this. Is this my problem or his? How do I figure out how to work in his mentality?

The list goes on...

2007-01-13 21:57:10 · 1 answers · asked by Picard Facepalm 5

2007-01-13 21:47:48 · 5 answers · asked by blue_veek 1

This girl I know was raped by her father in middle school. Now she seems normal, isn't scared to be friends with guys and such. I know she hasnt had actual sex yet but she does some fetish things like getting paddled. She also described her vision of a guy acting dominant over her. Is this right for someone that has been through rape?

Reason I ask is because I do love her, not for any sexual reason but she has a nice personality and such. She knows I do but only considures me as a friend. I am fine only being that role but I still do my best to look out and care for her. Plus I also went through rape when I was younger and still don't like certain situations or actions from guys.

2007-01-13 21:44:21 · 7 answers · asked by rezruf 3

For me it's:

1. Books (necessary for fun and general well-being)
2. Music (would miss terribly if not in my life)
3. Films (fun but wouldn't miss it)
4. Art (Irrelevant to me, only interested in practical 'art' like interior decorating and clothes)

2007-01-13 21:40:05 · 17 answers · asked by Velouria 6

I like to be beat up and trampled by girls after being trated horrible by peole, although now I enjoy it I still dont understand why ladies like tough guys who treat them bad. I tried to stopo a fight one and the guy beat me up in front of her, she stood their laughing and urging him on. It was not nice at the time but when i think of it now, I wish she had kicked me to

2007-01-13 21:35:59 · 5 answers · asked by docile_fool 1

2007-01-13 21:24:33 · 15 answers · asked by nima man 3

2007-01-13 21:18:48 · 10 answers · asked by shadowboston2002 1

2007-01-13 21:09:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-13 21:04:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been thinking about this for awhile because I've been a psychology major for a while now and I thought maybe an animated person would help me in the future? any ideas?

2007-01-13 20:59:37 · 2 answers · asked by italyazzurre44 2

2007-01-13 20:45:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

If so what , and do you believe they have meaning in your life..

2007-01-13 20:42:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean war is over and the young generation has nothing to do with this. I really don´t understand. Please give some answers. I am German and I have to say I was a little afraid to ask. So please only answer if you are serious.

2007-01-13 20:26:11 · 36 answers · asked by Melodie des Herzens 2

First, I'm not discounting the possibility that there may be the rare few that do not subvocalize their thoughts at all. I pose this question from the vacuum of my limited knowledge and experience: I form into words many of my thoughts, but as well can effortlessly, unintentionally perhaps "think" about the music I'm hearing, the sights upon which I'm looking without a single word my mind chooses to attach to the experience, consciously, explicitly at least.

I'm puzzled sometimes when I write: many times, I find myself typing--faster than I think, in words at least. I'm an engineer and I astound myself when I can intuitively solve a problem, seemingly skipping the usual steps in sequential, logical thought through bridges I've created by my intuition. I can "speed-read", but when I read anything of worth, I find myself subvocalizing, drifting across many tangents as I analogize or deconstruct a concept that lies within.

So, how do you think?

2007-01-13 20:22:44 · 2 answers · asked by spelunker 2

2007-01-13 20:17:13 · 10 answers · asked by Smile Everyday 1

of the person life?

2007-01-13 20:16:15 · 5 answers · asked by Smile Everyday 1

Wether positive or negative.I seriously want to know.

2007-01-13 20:13:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont know y but i am very bad at speaking my mind
i have to tell my friends how i feel abt her frnd
i am afraid to tell her bcoz it might destroy our frndship
i thought that i couldnt tell it to her face so called her
tell i heard her voice i was confident that i was going to tell her
but when she started talking it was totally different
i changed the topic
i need to tell her
but how

2007-01-13 20:03:29 · 13 answers · asked by monkeyinthepark 1

I been in a relationship for 3 years and alot has happened since
I feel this is the cause actually for the way I feel because he verbally abuses me not by swearing with the little things he says tears me apart and I hold it inside so much
I have mood swings where one minute i can be so happy and the next such a small little thing can make me get really aggravated
i cry alot ... i can't sleep at night ... but i sleep in late.. lately frequent headaches... i can't stop seem to think of the past and how my life really can't get any better... i go out and try to have fun if i do later on my mood decreases and im sad again.... im cruel to others i can't smile easily and i've found loss of happiness and laughter in life... i just don't know how to get back on my feet
can anyone tell me what really is going on?

2007-01-13 19:21:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its 12:15 and I'm thinking to myself...why am I not tired? And the second I think it, BOOM, I'm suddenly, out of nowhere, exhausted. This ever happen to you?

2007-01-13 19:16:28 · 16 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4

When you do.....do you see the city you live in? Can you fly fast?
Have you ever seen the dark lights, blacker than the night?
What are they?
I only dream like this when I am very happy or very sad.

2007-01-13 19:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have severe depression and mental disabilities suc as axiety as well. i cry very easily. but most of the time i get very lonely and i hate it. what can i do to stop feeling this way?

2007-01-13 18:53:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

An appeal has been submitted to the court already.plz tell me how anti porn thinking can come out of children in a faster way??

2007-01-13 18:52:07 · 5 answers · asked by Aditya 1

why do they say the most irrational things to cut them down?Almost like what they say is nonsensical.

2007-01-13 18:49:27 · 2 answers · asked by pat t 1

The latest incident brought out is that which happened in Noida.Why and how human beings are born with animals' nature?

2007-01-13 18:33:55 · 13 answers · asked by knv k 1

any suggestions?

2007-01-13 18:27:03 · 10 answers · asked by Dink 3

I have a fear of being restrained or trapped in a small space. It isn't claustraphobia because I don't mind small spaces. I just don't like being restrained or forced into a small space. Specifically I have a seizure condition and I'm terrified of the seizures becuase basically they remove my control of my body and I can only think and see out of my eyes but not control body movements.

2007-01-13 18:10:51 · 6 answers · asked by jaferris166 2

How come the slightest little thing you say can set off a tard? You would think that cause of their mental/physical condition they would keep the tone down.

2007-01-13 18:08:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-13 18:03:52 · 8 answers · asked by fordfan444 2