I been in a relationship for 3 years and alot has happened since
I feel this is the cause actually for the way I feel because he verbally abuses me not by swearing with the little things he says tears me apart and I hold it inside so much
I have mood swings where one minute i can be so happy and the next such a small little thing can make me get really aggravated
i cry alot ... i can't sleep at night ... but i sleep in late.. lately frequent headaches... i can't stop seem to think of the past and how my life really can't get any better... i go out and try to have fun if i do later on my mood decreases and im sad again.... im cruel to others i can't smile easily and i've found loss of happiness and laughter in life... i just don't know how to get back on my feet
can anyone tell me what really is going on?
2007-01-13 19:21:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I'm so sorry about your pain, dear. It sounds like depression, and you really need to see a therapist to get you back on your feet. How awful that your guy says little things to tear you apart. No one should have to put up with that. Please take care.
2007-01-13 19:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to flat out ask him if it's you or him and what he thinks/feels of you. You also need to ask your best friend(s).
I have struggled with deciding if I am bipolar, depressed, ADD, or have anxiety. I have tried lots of drugs most to no help to me. But I am slowly starting to find people who will listen. Don't be threatened if friends/family tell you negative things - you need them and co-workers, classmates, church members, etc. to guide you to make sure your meds are right.
I have learned alot from my friends and family to help me with my meds. I still don't know if I am bi-poloar or not, but I am learning slowly and painfully that life is the exploration to find out who we are.
So get your doctor, family, ex, friends, classmates, co-workers, ministor/priest/rabbi involved and let those know your struggles and they can help guide you.
Life is a journey so never feel ashamed nor afraid just because your's may be a mental journey. Others will have a physical journey, others a spiritual, and others an emotional journey.
2007-01-14 03:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you clearly have depression, i live with depression so i know the sines what you can do is ask your doctor to give you some effexor he will deside what you need you may need 50 or higher mg,s they are pills to help your mood swings and sad ness, but if you have mightmares then you need some seroquel they only have 25mg,s but you may need 3 at night they are pills as well. also tell your doctor you cant sleep at night,
2007-01-14 03:35:30 · answer #3 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the words that your boyfriend said to you must have been very off key, and yes it may have triggered a condition called bipolar you need to see a professional before this condition gets out of hand, some don't think that they need Attn in this type of condition but take my word for it drop your boyfriend and see a professional
2007-01-14 03:46:08 · answer #4 · answered by dorothy u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you want help for yourself or are you looking for people to feel sorry for you? you don;t need anyone to tell you that this is bad and that you need to get out....apparently you think this guy is better than you are to leave you the one who is trying to get help..look at all the time you are spending on this problem...wasted time when you could be moving on....i hate it when i read questions like yours...why do women let guys like this make them sick??
2007-01-14 03:38:26 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Summer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get medication, but actually talk through your problems with a psychiatrist or something. Talk to your boyfriend too. and if you already have then maybe you should find someone else.
2007-01-14 03:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by Laura Appleseed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i belive you are bipolar you need to discuss this with your doctar then you can go to theropy and get medication when you know the problem for sure
2007-01-14 03:26:03 · answer #7 · answered by fashionbringsmejoy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See what you think after reading this page http://www.healthadel.com/articles/9/1/Depression-Treatments/Page1.html it should help out.
2007-01-15 10:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by gooner1212 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could be bipolar, because i had a friend who acts like that and she didn't calm down until she got medication for it
2007-01-14 03:25:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♥katie♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Feel you need to see a good Phychiatrist, you need help.
2007-01-14 03:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by lonetraveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋