Me and my sons father have not been together in about 3 years. He went to prison because he got the babysitter pregnant (she was 13 and he was 26, hence why we are not together anymore). He was never a very good father, never worked, did drugs. I know they are way better off without him around. He has been writing me and telling me that I am hurting the boys by not letting hm talk to them or taking them to see him in jail. They know where he is. When they ask me why he is there I just saw because he didn't do the right thing. When we split up it was really hard on the boys, their whole lives changed, I used to work 70-80 hours a week at a min. wage job just to barely make it and their father was supposed to be at home with them but there were so many other things going on, things that I am very ashamed that I didn't get them out sooner. Finally, we are very happy and they are doing good. What should I do? They are 6 and 8, he won't be out untill they are 9 and 11.
2007-08-24
14:34:10
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