I was just wondering why some men seem to be so full of themselves at bars/clubs. It doesn't happen everytime I go - in fact, it only ever happens when I haven't paid any particular attention to my looks (ie. after work to grab a few beers with my girlfriends.) It's not that it even matters to me as I have a boyfriend, and I don't like dancing so I'm rarely within "flirting distance" when it comes to most of these places, but out of curiosity, why is it that when I went in all dolled up, the guys were acting normal like any other person in a bar, but tonight, when I was wearing jeans, a t-shirt, no makeup and a ponytail, the men didn't just NOT look to me -- they had these attitudes like, "You have no business being here." It was such a turnoff and even my friends picked up on the vibes. It was even worse the first time I went to a stripclub! I realize I haven't spent hours on my looks like the dancers have and that women are rare in those places, but the rudeness ... agh.
2007-07-31
19:32:35
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