im student finding a beautiful and better girlfriend because all of my life i never experience having a girlfriend. i feel when theres a girl in my side im not comfortable and i dont know also to dress well what should i do? if im always a loser in like this topic i dont know how to have a girlfriend i think if i talk to them they will hit me in the face or just leave with mormoring...... lettle help out there.....
2007-07-31 22:32:32 · 20 answers · asked by howard the torpe 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Ugly guys can get the girls too, but ugly AND shy? You got a problem.
Learn how to talk to girls little by little and you'll be less shy. Give them a reason to like you - be kind and helpful. Looks are less important to girls than guys, so you can do it with some effort.
2007-07-31 22:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your own self think that you're ugly and shy, can you just find and settle for a girlfriend you're comfortable with and not have to strive for a Beautiful girlfriend? If don't have much experiences with girls, just befriend the girls you encountered in your school and don't think first about finding a girlfriend so you won't feel uncomfortable, when you know each others better then relationships will follows.
2007-08-01 07:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. first u gotta stop referring to your self as ugly. try this, list 3 things about you that you find attractive or positive.
2. develop friendships with girls who like things that you like. it may be a video game or chess or math. who know, developing friendships will open the door to closer relationships.
3. the point is, if you have a friend, a girl may see you as more appealing. some girls like dudes that are surrounding by at least one other female, even if it's on the level of friend.
4. sounds like u need to do some inner self esteem work.
5. if a girl cracks on you or insults you, then the way you should look at it is, she wasn't the girl for you.
6. you've gotta learn how to properly approach a girl. how did ur dad hook up with ur mom? could u talk to him?
7. find books on self-help, self-esteem
8. be patient, don't rush things. it'll happen if u take this time to better yourself & prepare yourself for whats 2 come.
2007-08-06 16:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty girls sometimes like ugly boys want to know why... they don't get a lot of attention from other girls so the pretty girl doesnt feel thratend. and all (okay most) guys can becaome handsome looking. Just be cleaned shaved, nice hair cut but make it a little rough around the edges lol. wear semi baggy jeans not tight but not butt hanging out. and wear like a polo shirt (or what ever style is yours) but dress clean but not nerdy... like shorts with tall socks and a tucked in shirt. got glasses? get contacts. got braces? deal with it and brush your teeth. pretty girls also sometimes dig shy guys. i do. but i found most shy guys i did have a loud side and it takes a while for them and then they open up. so you need to show your funny side and open up some. get some girls to be your friends and they can maybe hook you up with someone. but give it time and that pretty girl will find you!!
good LUCK
2007-08-08 17:29:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dressing well and looking good is an easy enough problem to solve, get ideas of how to dress well from friends or family members or even the net. Just look at some fashion websites.
You don't seem to have enough confidence in yourself. be confident, and be yourself . Everyone has something unique in them, it not down to looks at all. It about having a postive character, being kind, nice , and well mannered.
2007-08-08 06:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by VelvetRose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me your pretty much doomed. I am also ugly and shy and really that about says it. Your life will be filled with sadness and frustration for the most part. I would suggest that it might help to lower your standards and you may find a life with a woman who is not beautiful but can love you. Thats not so bad really in fact in can be really good if you can manage to pull it off. Good luck to you I really do hope you can find something good for your life
2007-08-01 08:38:24 · answer #6 · answered by snoopy22564 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to know 1 thing....quite a number of ladies out there hardly consider cuteness.a cute guy who treats you like crap ain't something some of us would tolerate. You can just start by making friend with girls.you need to believe in yourself...appreciate the you u are.Stop moping about that you are not that good looking( which is why you have shyness).For relationships to go a long a long way it takes more than looks.it all starts in your mind...start by appreciating yourself,find the strengths in you you can work.I believe there's no greater stumbling bloke to stop you other than your own mind.I believe you can do it,it may not be easy but I know you can do it...one day you will be okay with who you are and be able to interact freely with others....best wishes hey!
2007-08-09 03:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by jugats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugly doesn't matter. SHY DOES.
Confidence wins girls over. Practice talking to girls by inventing reasons to do so. Ask a random girl on the street for directions or if they could tell you what time it is.
Once you see that they don't hit you in the face, you're confidence will grow.
2007-08-01 05:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope that which`ever person that you might find is aware of many things!?! meaning whatever's S`O.'o`,called "in"/hip!?! & just stick to that for a SHORT~TIME !! So ,' or incase you're able to come up with your OWN ideas that might fit in with or can be related to anything that's current/up to date !?! & or "HIP"~??lol??...But most importantly,'"Try to be Y O U R S E L F ~!!!& just try to get others around you to see that "Looks are'nt everything !! Or even as important as some seem to think & feel !!" For what looks good to you,' may not be good for you "~!!! `'R"r,r`a`w W w,"R"'r.r'r.->
2007-08-09 01:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Study hard in school.
Become a professional at something (doctor, lawyer, CPA, Salesman)
Make a load of money and you will get better looking and only 1/2 as shy.
2007-08-07 23:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by aviator147 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋