I recently met a guy online who lives in a different country but close enough to visit. He seems like the answers to my dreams. He's honed in on all my vulnerabilities and says all the right things. He dropped the 'L' word within days of communicating with me and talks a lot about a long term/distance relationship, sex, having children together, relocating to where I am. What we have is very intense . I have no way to verify if what he tells me is the truth - eg about his family, friends, or work. He's never asked me for any like money but I found myself offering to pay for half of his ticket (he's coming to visit next month). I have deep seeded personal issues, which I've shared with him and he has accepted. Although I am well liked, attractive, and social well adjusted, I've suffered from serious low self esteem and insecurity my whole life. He hasn't displayed typical sociopathic traits, but I can't help but thinking that I'm being set up.
2007-03-27
07:32:26
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