I have noticed that when I encounter someone who I don't like (and I make it obvious enough so that there isn't any confusion), the person, without fail, will start petty conversation. i.e. "How are you?", "What have you been up to?", etc. Honestly, do they care and if not, why don't they just leave me alone?
Can two people who don't like each other be in the same room without bothering each other with such unnecessary display of politeness?
Also, I have noticed that these conversations normally drag on when there are other people around (especially when there is a mutual party). There hasn't been a situation where the mutual party doesn't know of my feelings towards the other person. What is your two cents on the reasoning behind this?
What is your opinion on petty conversation?
2007-02-21
17:25:54
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