a question?

Question

well i'm not sure if this is a question. but i guess comments will help

uuh right, well it seems like everything in my life seems to never be like just good. theres always one thing that i need to improve
like now, my parents are proud that i'm doing really good at school but actually IN school at recesses and lunches i feel like i dont belong and get on that well with my friends anymore. But a few terms ago we were the best of friends, but i was doin really bad academically.
i cant really be happy for what i'm doing well anymore

thanks for reading :}

Answer 1

Congrats on you grades!!!

I bet it's hard at school sometimes but you know what your doing the right thing by focusing on school and getting your grades up cus in the long run that is what will go with you in the future not those people. Pray to God to send you good friends that will be happy in your successes. Be happy with what your achieving and don't let anyone get you down. Something I recently heard that checked with me allot was that mediocre people will never be happy when you rise above their level, when they see you achieving something and your above their level in something they will never be happy cus they are medicre they don't want to grow and mature and prosper.

Be proud of who you are and what you are doing. Open your hear t to God tell him to guide you in every area of your life, ask him for favor with people he will give it to you.

God Bless!!!!

Answer 2

What are you talking about, you are alive and you probably have a better life than a lot of other people.
If you are doing well in school then good for you, but how does it make you feel. In a few years time school will be finished & it will be time to move on into the world. If that isnt somthing to look forward to then I dont know what is.
As for your friends maybe you are all just having a break. How do you know each of them dont feel the same?
I think everybody goes thro that feeling of not belonging but this is one of those things we just have to deal with.
Remember what they say 'change is as good as a holiday' if you dont like they way things are going then change them you have the power.
I hope I was helpful & I hope things start to look up for you.
All the best

Answer 3

I think that we all have times in our lives like that, and who knows if there's anything that can be done to change it!

The good thing, though, is that you recognize that, at times, either your school work or your friendships are on the rocks and will require more of your attention. (Be grateful that your school work and social life aren't both suffering at the same time!!! :-)

It sounds like you need to find a way to strike a good balance. For instance, perhaps you're spending too much time with friends (which is why those relationships are going well) but not enough time on your schoolwork (which is why you are suffering academically), and vice versa.

Perhaps when this "cycle" starts again, try to make sure you're fitting everything in and managing your time appropriately. If you are doing poorly academically, hopefully your friends will understand that you have to devote a little bit more time to studying, and they will know that once you're leveled out again, you will have more time for them. If your friends aren't understanding, then perhaps it's time to hang out with some new people.

Good luck! :-)

Answer 4

You know what? Most big people you know went through the same thing! The good part is that focusing on school and your work is EXACTLY what you should be doing now! You may be a little more mature than your classmates-see who is the better off in 10 years! You will be the winner . Just look at this bad time as strengthening your character!

Answer 5

It is a question and here's my comment cause I have this with my 17 year old son now. Don't push our academic or schooling aside now. Don't take it for granted if you are in high school now since it is "free" to a certain extent. Yes you have your friends now in school but that does not mean you will have them later after you graduate from high school. So don't trade schooling for friendships Instead trade your friendships for schooling. And there is where you can meet a new set of friends with the same goals you will have. I'll try to get my son to read this later on so. I hope one of you two listens. Good luck!

Answer 6

You should not bother too much about your problem .If you bother too much you mayget'nto trouble and you may get 'n depression so it won`t be good for your health .I faced problems in high school like you and bothered about them too much .Everything will be fine .Take it easy .Maybe you do not want to spend time with your friends nowadays but it may change in the future .So there is nothing staying stable .Take care
And do not forget that everyday is a new day . And you can correct your mistakes if you have new days to live .So you should take care of your health first of all and you can get help from your family. At least you can find only one friend this may be your mom dad or someone you know well .Talking with someone will help you to cope with stress and you will feel better .But if you do not want to talk now do not force yourself .

Answer 7

Maybe when you were really close to your friends, you studied less than it should, that's why you weren't doing well academically. And now your grades are improving because you can concentrate on your studies because you have more time.

Why don't you ask your friends to study together, so you'll still be close and have good grades too?

:)

Answer 8

There is a fine line of balance in life. To be balanced, one must satisfy their mind, body, and soul. The easiest of these to satisfy, for most is the soul. The soul is easily satisfied by music or T.V. that you genuinely enjoy. One's body is satisfied by exercise and eating healthy. The hardest aspect of life to balance is the mind. The mind is the most active of the three, and the hardest to tame. In order to tame this aspect of life, you need to determine what is most important to you and what you are intending to do with your life. Once you can determine your destiny, the rest will be minor details.

Answer 9

Having high grades may possibly alienate some people but don't worry about them.

Why not offer to help the few friends who might need it. They will be grateful. and end up up being your best friends.

Answer 10

Hope,
Have hope and continue to do good in school.Talk to your friends and work out the problems.Make your parent proud of your grades.
Read Romans 10 in the bible (and John).