How do I become my self again? I am 20 years old now and I never had good luck with women. I had only 2 girlfriends one at age 16 and other 18,I was going out with them mabe for a month before it ended. So I started looking for something to help me in that area. I read this book how to improve your dating,its all about comletely changing you personality,be some one also;fake. So I started using it and yes I did get more attention froms girls but in the end of the day I felt bad and miserable because that just wasn't me I felt sick to the stomack.I started always watching my behavior if I do everything as in says in the book. One day I decided I just wanted to be my self to be happy again. But I acted like some one also for so long, I dont know who I am anymore. How should I act and do things.How I was before.I am always thinking am I being my self now or is it something learned. How do I get back to being my self.How can I erase all that programming from what I read and how I acted?
2006-10-26
21:01:53
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