Sometimes I feel like people want to hurt my feelings deliberately. I know am kind and helpfull, I work hard and am not lazzy. This seems to get on some people's nerves, I get the feeling some people want to see me fail. what can I do?
2006-10-26 23:12:22 · 6 answers · asked by chillie 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
=You are so much like me I can't believe it. Why do people want to push our buttons and take us to the max? I think it its because we make others feel bad about themselves and their own shortcomings. Try to put up a so called sheet of plexi-glass between yourself and them. I am in the process of fighting another battle at this moment. It seems to be an on going battle, but in the end we will always win. What drives me crazy is that it is always with those that you care about and trust the most that can hurt you so. What you must remember is that we are good and the others are always trying to take advantage of us.
2006-10-30 15:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinysusan 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't expect much from other people, just work on your own to better improve yourself. Stop minding other people & ignore those who are hurting you.
2006-10-27 06:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You continue your spirit.Let the people cry at your achievement. You don't feel hurt in your mind. Criticism will make you more popular.
2006-10-27 06:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand their motive.If they do it out of jealousy feel happy you have something that makes people jealous.If they do it out of ignorance just ignore.
2006-10-27 07:38:37 · answer #4 · answered by Padmini Gopalan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think many people get that. maybe everyone has jealous people around them but if u are sensitive they are willing to show it more.
2006-10-27 07:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.... its better to practice forgiveness than to become insensitive i think ... i get easily offended to .. just have to learn to let it go ...
2006-10-27 06:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋