This is a marriage counselor, and during a session I made the statement, " I don't think my husband is in love with me, he's in love with the stupid in me". We've been married 11 yrs, problems for about 5 yrs or longer, and I ask myself, why have I put up with this for so long, and better yet why has my husband put up with me? Is it because I don't leave, yeah probably.
Anyway, after making this statement, the counselor looked at me with a confused look, leaned back in his chair, and said "What? What is that supposed to mean, I don't get it?"
Was it a dumb statement, wasn't it clear? I thought it spoke volumes. Not only do I feel stupid for staying in my marriage, now I feel stupid for making the statement.
2006-10-18
06:29:19
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