This person seems to make a point of not giving me what I want, has shown a certain propensity for self-centeredness and is hypersensitive to my disagreements. She has also put me on the spot when I am in the more vulnerable position in order to punish me for my disagreement (a disagreement in which I had the better argument, meaning that she couldn't refute it intellectually). But here's the thing. She shows some discomfort when doing it, like she's unable to face me directly when doing it. For example, if we were in the same room, she'd have to go do something on the end opposite to me right after putting me on the spot. It is easier for her to be cold and mean over the phone or in a social setting where she's in control and there are other people. In a more personal plane she can be nasty but when I react by leaving she tries to make amends. We had an educational relationship and she was never unfair grades-wise but she played some mean waiting games. I don't know what to think.
2006-08-28
06:28:56
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nogallina
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