Could I ever change my mind?
2006-08-28 06:45:51 · 29 answers · asked by Coo coo achoo 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hmmmm, If you set out to be a loser by choice and you succeed are you a loser?
2006-08-28 06:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by Ron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then more power to you man.
A lot of people become losers by association or because they really are bona fide losers.
But you... you're on a league of your own.
You have actually chosen who you want to be.
Loser.
los‧er /ˈluzər/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[loo-zer] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun 1. a person, team, nation, etc., that loses: The visiting team was the loser in the series.
2. Informal. a. a person who has been convicted of a misdemeanor or, esp., a felony: a two-time loser.
b. a person who has failed at a particular activity: a loser at marriage.
c. someone or something that is marked by consistently or thoroughly bad quality, performance, etc.: Don't bother to see that film, it's a real loser.
3. Slang. a misfit, esp. someone who has never or seldom been successful at a job, personal relationship, etc.
Now... could you ever change your mind?
Life's about choices. You choose who you want to be. How you want to act. How you want to treat people. How you want people to treat you. How educated you want to be. How polite. Ect. Ect. Ect.
So... if you are not happy with who you are right now, there is no better time than the present to change yourself.
But be very aware of who you want to be and who you don't want to become.
Just be yourself man.
And if that means you're a loser, so be it.
Nobody who's true to themselves is a real loser.
2006-08-28 06:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by falzalnz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you got as far as being a loser by choice, im sure you could become a winner again just by settin your mind to it, hehe. But just so u know, personally, my point of view on what a "loser" is, is totally different to that of the one known in society. To me a loser, is just someone whos cruel and mean and unkind...if you would want to be those things by chocie...then yeah that would make you a loser, lol but...if you´re talkin about being sweet n nerdy which is what normally percieved as loser-like, well then i say, please go ahead, lol, cuz we need more sweet nerds in this world. :)
2006-08-28 08:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jaded 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any winner by choice ? Can U choose to win or loss ?
It's fine, as U wish, but do not ever change your mind even if U could. Changing mind's dangerous to self, others & society as well.
Now next, don't ask what if I'm a winner by choice.
2006-08-28 07:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by JD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude I'm not a loser by choice but a loser nun the less. Be proud get a loser hat. I had one made at a hat shop. Get a lot of comments on it. I may be a loser but I get noticed. Then I can tell them why.
2006-08-28 06:49:40 · answer #5 · answered by rrxdeadman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can change your mind anytime you want,if you feel you`ve had enough of being a loser just feel free to change your mind but if you like being a loser then you dont need to change your mind.
(why would you choose to be a loser?Nobody wants to be a loser.)
2006-08-28 06:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the thinking of someone with very low self-esteem, low opinion of oneself... usually caused by ill-criticism and negative reinforcement rather than positive criticism and positive reinforcements during some time in your life when you were most vulnerable emotionally.
Obviously your attempts at soul-searching have led you astray, and have allowed you to come to this wrong conclusion, as we all do sometime in our lives. But, this as stated above has been the result of ill-criticism and negative reinforcement, which you can overcome when YOU are ready to do so... not before.
Can you change your mind? Yes, but only when you get tired of your lot in life and YOU decide that you are just as good as the next person, and better than others.
2006-08-28 07:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every family, even the well to do, has the one loser. You choose your destiny early in life. Yes you can change, you have to want to make a change though. You have to decide where you want to go and find it, theres no road map. Don't expect it to fall in your lap.
2006-08-28 07:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by mslorikaraoke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u want to be a looser and ur able to live by that...ur not a looser anymore ..coz u were able to do that!
Yes u may change ur mind. Better start every new day of yours with these words
"Ill try to be the best"
Winning and loosing depends on lot of things! to give a try is what that needs a lot of Guts..got it dude?
2006-08-28 06:58:03 · answer #9 · answered by VJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you chose it then of course you can change your mind.... Unless you want to stay a loser then you choose not to change your mind
2006-08-28 06:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋