i had a miscarriage in october,and my friends who have miscarried have said they were told the same thing-but how do they know its a chromosomal disorder?they dont do tests unless you repeatedly miscarry,and if they are so sure then why are you told to avoid certain things when you're pregnant-e.g.raw egg because of the danger of miscarriage-i dont know that it wasn't because of the bit of dog-poo i didnt quite clean off our buggy wheels and gave myself toxiplasmosis for example.
I am not beating myself up,i am trying to make sense,i didnt have fever-which is a risk factor,or have a sauna-high core temperature is a risk too, but i was running-got very hot then-why did they tell me that was not the cause- yet personal trainers are given advice about pregnancy and heart-rate......was the dr. just trying to make me feel better?
How do they know, is there a sign on the scan that they look for,or does the medical community really not know a lot about miscarriage?seriously?
2006-11-05
21:36:48
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tigerfoot
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