Has anyone ever had an abortion and not regreted it?

Question

please give me the whole story and say why you didnt regret it. thx

This is for my skool work im not thinking about having an abortion im against it and im not pregnant

Answer 1

I have never met anyone who hasn't regretted it.

Even men. I was dating a guy who was 50 and he had two daughters. In his senior year of high school his gf got pregnant. He paid for her abourtion. To this day he is said that the baby might of been his son.


Hon, consider adoption. many loving families want to have a baby

Answer 2

Well I was up visiting family members when I was 17, it was the first time I was away from my parents and I went to party and no I didn't drink or do drugs, somehow someone put a date rape pill in my drink and I don't remember anything after that. But when I missed my period and found out I was pregnant, I was devastated, I had been a virgin and wasn't really on great ground with my dad at home. So instead of letting them find out I went and had an abortion, i knew my dad wouldn't let me back in b/c I had already ran away twice for a stupid guy.... so I did the one thing I thought I could do and regretted everyday of my life. My baby would be 4 right now and I will never know what he/she would have been like. Also when I did finally get pregnant with my first child and I had a healthy pregnancy with no complications and when my baby didn't make it.... i blamed the docs but secretly i wondered if it was an eye for an eye.... i guess i'll neverk know till i meet my maker

Answer 3

I was 19 years old and had just moved across the country (my doctor thought maybe with the move I took the pill at different times each day, probably true) Before I missed my period I caught Rubella (German Measles), at first we thought that delayed my period, then it turned out I was pregnant. An ultrasound revealed that though the baby had a heart beat, there is no way it would have survived outside the womb. I choose to abort rather than wait for it to die naturally. I do not regret my decision for a moment. I miscarried a few years later (a planned pregnancy) and that haunts me to this day, 8 years and 2 gorgeous children later.

Answer 4

I was 16 when I first fell pregnant and everyone pushed me to have an abortion, I just couldn't bring myself to do it, a few weeks later I lost the baby and I feel horrible everytime I think about the daughter I couldn't carry. I look at her as a test, to see if I would abort or if I was ready to become a mother and change my life forever. Not 2 months after I had my D&C I fell pregnant again and refused to feel anything for my baby as I was petrified I would loose him to, He was born when I was 17 and at the time I didn't realise why he was born, but have always believed everything happens for a reason. Now 4 years later I can see that my son was born to save me from a terrible mistake, his father I was trapped in a relationship that I could only be releaced from by having my son to think of first before me. I don't regret having him as I was told I proberly would, I feel like I now have the perfect life, I have a beautiful son and daughter a husband who adores me and another baby on the way. I have achived so much at 21.

Pregnancy is a gift of life, if you take that away you will always wonder what that life would have been like, and when you are 'ready' to have a baby, would you be thinking I gave this away before and why did I do that. Abortion is forever, adoption would be hard also, but at leasted you have still given that gift of life to somebody who despertly wants it, and there is a chance to meet that life when they are older and then you don't need to worry about what sort of person they would have been as you can find out. I couldn't have given my son up either as the first look at him was a love I never though possible. I believe everything thrown at you, you can handle, you just need to realise your prioitys and stick to it, tomorrow is a better day and remember when feeling blue, things can only get better. Make light of the situation put into your hands.

Best wishes, and i know its not the answer to your question but I wanted to let you know my opinion been a young mum and abortion just wasn't an option for me.

Answer 5

I easily have had an abortion. because of the fact i replaced right into a school student residing on my pals sofa. there is not any way i ought to extra wholesome a infant in my existence, and falling by the wayside of school wasn't an selection the two. Nope. i do no longer sense sorry approximately it. in no way. i think of i might have regretted it much extra if I deserted it an an orphanage. What approximately 6, 8, 10 years down the line? while i replaced into financially stable and self sustaining, and would have a baby? understanding my baby replaced into obtainable being raised via strangers. And theres no way i could possibly work out them or take them returned? that could have KILLED ME.

Answer 6

I have never had an abortion, but I do personally know a woman that felt relieved after her abortion.

She's married and had three children already. Her kids were prone to illness because they had all had a terrible bout of viral pneumonia, and bringing another baby into the house could have been very dangerous to their health due a poor immune system after their pneumonia. And, her finances were pretty tight. She was on the pill and took it correctly every day but it failed for some reason. When she realized she was pregnant, she made the decision to have an abortion for the sake of the health of her other three kids, and to better financially provide for them as well.

She told me after her abortion that she was very relieved, and remains so to this day.

Answer 7

Never had one but know many who have, yes we do talk about it, in our private circles and regret sometimes reveals its ugly head but at those crucial times, circumstance prevailed. There are other feelings that go along with the procedure. I think it is an individual thing, again depending on the female and circumstances.

Answer 8

I had one when i was 16, the guy i was with took off the condom.. when i found out he said i was lying and hit me!!
I wasnt going to bring a baby into that, so i made the best decision i thought i could at the time....

I wouldnt say i regret it but i do wonder sometimes.......