This may seem silly since I am a happily married woman who is 20 wks pregnant with #4 but I would like some advice on how to tell my parents. When I was pregnant with # 3, I told my mother over the phone and she was horrible-said "if I want to be white trash", "sometimes abortion isn't a bad thing",etc,etc. She finally came around and apologized but the hurt she caused me will never completely go away. This past summer she has been hounding me that she hopes I don't get pregnant again soon, etc so I expect her to be very negative again when I tell her. I just don't get why she is so concerned with how many kids/how close together I have them-we are not asking them to raise or pay for them. It's our family and we are very happy with it. So I could use some advice on how to tell them -I definitely won't do it over the phone this time, I could write them a letter , or tell them when I see them in early Dec. Thanks in advance. This is causing unnecessary stress.
2006-11-16
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