I'm 25 years old and still a virgin. I haven't ever done all that much with the guys I've been with, for some reason I really freak out anytime they try to go below the waist. I've no idea why.
I masturbate regularly and use vibrators and I feel like I want to have sex - I spent the night with a guy recently, we went to bed together, both naked and I wanted to have sex with him, but whenever he started touching me down there I got really scared and asked him to stop.
A few guys have tried to touch me down there, and it's weird - I WANT them to, but then when they do I freak out and usually end up getting really upset about it.
What can I do to get over it? Because it's really frustrating me now! I do have some anxiety problems and I see a psychiatrist but I'm too embarrassed to talk to her about this. Is this normal or should I try to talk to her about it?
2006-06-27
12:46:07
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