Singles & Dating - 5 August 2007

I went to thise summer session for NJROTC and the officers were super different from the guys I'm use to. They aren't that great looking, but they are so serious but can have fun. I find myself strangely attracted to them because they are so mature. How can I get them to notice me, even when I'm younger, unexperienced, shy, and are friends with my older sister. How do I at least become friends with them? They seem so unapproachable because they seem so serious.

2007-08-05 16:59:05 · 5 answers · asked by francesca C. 3

I am 5'4, about 165lbs, with 38DD's, (38-30-42). I have a medium to large athletic ass (* round but not huge). I am a size women's 10, so I am thick but still have an hourglass figure (you can pinch an inch on my waist though).

I am also 1/2 Pacific Islander and white, but i have a little bit of an Asian look to my eyes, but I look Hawaiian. I have long black hair (I get a lot of compliments on it) and light brown skin. I have a clear face with big brown eyes, a button nose, and full lips. I am a good dancer, I'm funny, I love to flirt. I have my navel and nose pierced (who doesn't though?)

I get a lot of attention OBVIOUSLY, with my **** and my face. Do I sound attractive though? Sometimes I wonder if guys just holler @ anything?> Give me you're opinion.

2007-08-05 16:58:53 · 7 answers · asked by shiveringbliss 1

Do you think I'm attractive? I didn't have a camera so I had to draw a picture of myself.

http://i184.photobucket.com/albums/x73/elephantman159/Photoofme.jpg?t=1186372509

2007-08-05 16:56:33 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

i went to my bf's he lives a half hour away. he had one of his kids over and didnt warn me, and i was just sitting over there watching a movie with them bored shitless. i stayed til movie was over and they were gonna go to bed. i wasnt sleepy so i said i was going home. is this rude? or shouldnt he understand i dont wanna sit up staring at the ceiling? he is being an jerk about it.

2007-08-05 16:54:17 · 2 answers · asked by knowitall 4

if you were 6'2"? :)

kind of the same height diff as..
http://www.vince-vaughn.com/gallery/displayimage.php?album=25&pos=11
http://www.vince-vaughn.com/gallery/displayimage.php?album=25&pos=22
http://www.vince-vaughn.com/gallery/displayimage.php?album=25&pos=23

2007-08-05 16:53:28 · 7 answers · asked by lara 1

So a guy I've briefly met twice named "Jack" texts me and invites me to see a movie w/ him and his friend "Allen".

I responded "I really want to see that movie, but I'm busy tonight. Sorry! :( Besides, I'm sure you and Allen will have a very romantic time together. ;)

Would you: 1) be offended by this 2)understand that it's a joke 3) feel like there's no chance in hell that this i like you, or 4) try again to go out with me another time?

2007-08-05 16:50:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my guy for 3 and a half months.
He came with me sat night to a friends going away which turned out not to be a really good night, she pretty much told my guy behind my back about my past that im not proud of and stuff he didnt need to know.
Anyways after I left his house yesterday he was affectionate all day and seemed fine, I asked him via text if he has lost repect cos of what he had been told and he said no he hasnt lost respect and we are all good but I know he was a little fuinny about what he heard and he admitted it was stuff he didnt need to know.
Basically for him to stick by me and be fine after that means he likes me heaps yeah cos im guessing most guys would piss off but the fact is we are still together??
He also told me that night before this happened that he loves me but he was drunk and I said I wanna hear it when he is sober, he reckons it had been on his mind for a while and couldnt get the courage to say sound genuine?

2007-08-05 16:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am involved in with a great guy, but we had some bad times so he went and told his family about them. Now they look at me funny and I have been disrespected a few times. But, he finally told them to stay out of our affair since I was about to leave him alone I have no doubt that he loves me I can't began to tell you it would take up so much of your time. I care a great deal for him, he was kicked out of his family's house so now we're roomies, I just wanted him with out his family. Any one ever been here before? I would even consider marrying him I care about him alot even though I was disrepected by his family, I just I know how romeo and Juliet felt Help me please no depressing answers I care about him but please keep it real people thanks alot

2007-08-05 16:43:41 · 4 answers · asked by Gingersweet 1

I have a associate who is a little on the ''wild side''
She tells me that I am missing out on all the fun because I'm not giving into the potential guys who i can have a ''wild night with''.
I've always told myself that I would loose it to a special person who i know would love me, respect me and my body. But when it comes to it, it does seem like I'm missing out on the fun, and pleasure. But then again I think how could I sacrifice one night of pleasure, it could turn into a lifetime of pain. I want to be liked, I want to be well known with great friends. Entering my senior year, i feel as if there is probably going to be more peer pressure when it comes to my virginity. I've stayed strong, but don't know how to stay stronger. Am I really missing out on anything? Should i just go for it? Is sex really worth waiting for?

2007-08-05 16:36:36 · 56 answers · asked by DJ 6

I ahve known him for 5 years... we love each other a whole lot we not based on sex nd he never makes me do anything i dont want to... im 16 nd he is 19... He came to meet my parents nd dey had a problem with his age... I dont see a problem with us bein together... our love his mutal its not just something i think

Him: it like dey all against us
ME: wat they think dont matter... its what we think, nd what we want
HIM: we got 2 fight 4 dis relationship
ME: Well i love you enuff to fight for it... Do you?
HIM: yyyyeeeeaaaa
ME: lol well den dats all dat really matters... right?
HIM: yea u rite

So do u see a problem... nd y... nd if you dont... still why?

2007-08-05 16:34:49 · 25 answers · asked by Lakay aka Mizz B 2

So I am going into high school and I met this girl in seventh grade. I was going out with someone else at the time but I knew she liked me. I was going to ask her out during the summer after seventh grade but I never saw her. So in eighth grade we went out but she kept cancelling dates so I broke up with her. A few months later we decided to get back together, but the next day her best friend told me she wanted to break up. However, I later found out that she had never said that, but we didn't get back together. After that we both saw other people for a while but now she told me she might still like me. That was last week and now she won't return my calls.

What the hell should I do?

2007-08-05 16:25:39 · 8 answers · asked by Asher 2

this guy that im pretty much in love with is movin all the way to arizona.. i live in indiana and this jus seems so unreal to me rite now. i found out today that hes movin tomorrow. hes gonna come back in 3 months but he's gonna go to a different school.. so i wont ever see him.. prolly ever againn =[[ i mean i have a HUGEE crush on him & i lovee him. and i wont see him ever again =[[ pls someone help me feel better cuz i feel like dying..................................

2007-08-05 16:25:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help me be functional! Here's the situation, in a nutshell- I can't like a guy without it becoming an obsession. Then, I can't talk to him anymore, or be around him without blushing, because I like him too much. Consequently, I never push past the initial phase of, "Oh, you're in my class. How nice." [smile and turn away] So then my subconscious, craving interaction, sets up an amusing little series of fantasies and creates a history and personality for the person in question. I never get near enough to find out if I've hit anywhere near the mark, so I continue to obsess because, of course, my imagination has only let one or two VERY minor faults slip into his character. I daydream that some day he'll make the first move and I'll find out he liked me all along. When it doesn't happen, I get depressed. Then I don't want to talk to him, because I'm mad that he didn't do anything about a crush he probably knew nothing about and then I blame myself (rightly so) and try to move on.

2007-08-05 16:23:41 · 2 answers · asked by artfuldodger1300 2

About two months ago my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years broke up with me or should i say suggested that we take a break. At first i didn't get y b/c things had been going really good at the time. He then told me that he was afraid that we were too young to be so serious (we're 19) and that lately he'd been thinking bout marriage. He told me that it scared him and that we needed to take a break so we could "experience life w/o eachother b4 we commited to eachother." I cried but said okay.

Now it seems that we see even more of eachother, still going out with eachother on dates, talking every nite on the fone, etc. everything seems good until ask what the point of the break was if we still act like we're 2gether.

I think he's selfish b/c he wants the benefits of a gf w/o being tied down.i haven't I have no idea what i should do and whether or not i'm being a fool for sticking around waiting for him to want to make it official again. I think that i haven't given him time 2 miss me yet.

2007-08-05 16:20:08 · 8 answers · asked by Ms. I luv dc 1

This guy & I have been seeing each other off & on when we're not busy working. We get along great, we obviously seem to enjoy each other's company, he kisses & cuddles with me, but we haven't had sex yet, which is a good thing because I'd like a relationship with him, not just friends with benefits kinda thing. Anyway, I'm not sure what he truly thinks of me, we had discussed a relationship before, but he told me that right now he's too busy with work to give me the attention I deserve. But I still want to see him through, but just by being patient. Well he wrote me a message a lil awhile ago & said that he hurt his knee. So I wrote back just asking him if he needed me to take him to the hospital, just being nice, and he jokingly wrote back "I just cut it off instead" so I wrote back "well I'd still like you even if you did only have one leg ;)" but he hasn't written back yet. Did I say that too soon, I'm sure he knows I like him, but am I being pushy, what do you think he thinks?

2007-08-05 16:19:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Other than he obvious. Because every girl has her own description of what she personally feels during "the ultimate kiss"...Please do tell. ;)

2007-08-05 16:19:36 · 11 answers · asked by R M 3

if she like him? does this turn you off or do you guys like too do all the initiating

2007-08-05 16:09:44 · 8 answers · asked by HelloKitty 1

I have been happy with other girls and in love with one of them but every now and then it comes back to her. I recently found out she got married about a year ago and have been thinking about her nonstop. I feel like I get over her and move on but sooner or later I start thinking about her again and how perfect we were for each other. It seems like I have no problem "moving on" with another girl and being completely normal but deep down inside there is always that feeling. She is not my first love either (as far as I can tell) so it is not the whole "first love" issue.

2007-08-05 16:00:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every time I go out w/a guy, it always turns into a friend thing. This guy asked me out and we went out Friday, and now we're friends lol. I always seem to be getting in that friend zone. I know how to flirt. I do it all the time but then when it comes down to the date, I either come across as a friend or I end up sleeping w/the guy. I'm not doing the sleeping anymore but I guess I'm coming across as cold now. I can't seem to do it right. I haven't had a long term relationship in a year. I had a relationship that lasted about 2 months this year.

2007-08-05 16:00:13 · 10 answers · asked by YO Mama 2

Ive always wanted to try just havent asked so how should i ask and is it even possible!?!?!?!??

2007-08-05 15:57:43 · 9 answers · asked by Blondy 1

I went on a date, and slept with this girl. Except I feel kind of bad because she is such a nice girl. I mean Ive done this sort of thing a lot, but with this girl its different because she had such a hard life which I wont get into because of he privacy. I still though took advantage of her and told her how she could trust me and I would be there and then we had fantastic sex. But I had no intention of calling her, but instead just disappear from her life. Normally I dont care, but this time I do. Can I take a pill or something to make this feeling of guilt to go away?

2007-08-05 15:57:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

we really like being together and i know in myself that i love him to death.

2007-08-05 15:52:31 · 22 answers · asked by jahnette08 1

ever played tetris?
did you dream about it after playing it for an hour or two?

2007-08-05 15:48:23 · 3 answers · asked by Mercury 2010 7

Example: You are not attracted to the person in the first place. Can one bypass that impression and make "friends" with that person with a second impression? Usually, people will go with looks first, then cross out the chance of second impression.

Why did that sound like something Chrissy Snow would say?

2007-08-05 15:48:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 19 and i just started college last yr and I met this asian guy who i thought was perfect and was going to treat me well because he is more cultured. For the first month he was amazing but then i found out he slept with 4 other girls on my floor!!! I still love him and he told me he wont cheat and he didnt know that we were in a "relationship" but he says that he wouldnt want to start a relationship with anyone else? should i forgive him? he's 19 too.

2007-08-05 15:37:14 · 39 answers · asked by Kevin L 1

okay so my boyfriend is really nice to me around me and calls me names and stuff and ignores me around his friend and he flirts with my bff and so does she.....when i try to break up with him i just cant cuz i like hi soo much what should i do!?!?

2007-08-05 15:31:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

when a guy (my close friend) asks if i would like to have baby, then tells me he'd like to get married soon with the right woman...is he dropping a hint?

we've been away for months because i moved out. we talk by chat.

2007-08-05 15:27:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please give reasoning for your answer.

2007-08-05 15:25:17 · 34 answers · asked by Kiara 5

My love is married(arranged) to someone else.Now im unable to forget her and im depressed.Always thinking about her n her hub.How to divert my mind from her.But she says she is not having same pain like me.What is the reason?.I cant imagine her with someone else.wat is the diff between she n me.You may say move on like that its ok but how could she adjust with him and do all the things. Plzz helpppp

2007-08-05 15:24:52 · 1 answers · asked by Believe in yourself 5

what's the hottest hairstyle and clothes. What makes u attracted to gurls?personality and physical. honestly

2007-08-05 15:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous