if she like him? does this turn you off or do you guys like too do all the initiating
2007-08-05 16:09:44 · 8 answers · asked by HelloKitty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not? It's not a turnoff; in fact in some cases it's a turnon. Some of these "rules" of "etiquette" are getting way out of hand. What if she likes him but he doesn't know she exists; how will that work out? What if he's into a career, job, team, or other commitment and he doesn't have time to search? What if he just doesn't want to search because of a prior misfortune (i.e. a death in the family, a monetary disappointment, an ended friendship, etc.)? So the answer is yes. Whoever wants to start the relationship should.
2007-08-06 06:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by DJC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not pursue a man...it is such a strong word PURSUE.. maybe just to be able to ask him out .. is sufficient.. if a guy is interested he will go for it.. guys are not that complicated like we women make them out to be.. we so want to have a complex man just to change him into a simple one .. just to be able to be bored with him later... LADIES WAKE UP...he is just as unsure of himself as we are... he needs us to cater to his ego.. just to survive... or else he goes crazy..I personally think that man should.. stand up and take intiative.. but then all of us ladies would all be at home washing our hair or painting our toenails every weekend,,because men have all lost there balls... we women make it too easy for them..so just ask him out already...
2007-08-05 23:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea of course, especually if the guy is shy. Just dont act 2 desperate ( that is a turn off)
2007-08-05 23:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jack N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always been pursued. I have never really looked for a women.
2007-08-05 23:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I met my wife I told her no for 6 months. I didnt think we would be any good together, and she "chased me" the whole way. Many years later she taught me that most women uasually know what they want. So if you want to show him you like him,,,,Chase away!
2007-08-05 23:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by DoC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it does take alot of pressure off you when a woman can flirt with you and you let her know you're interested back. nothing wrong with that
2007-08-05 23:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by sshueman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A LADY SHOULD NEVER DO THAT. SHE SHOULD LET YOU KNOW HOW SHE FEELS THOUGH
THAT TOTALLY TURNS ME OFF IF A LADY KISSES ME FIRST OR WHATEVER. A MAN DOESN'T LIKE THAT.BUT IS GOOD TO BE HONEST.BUT NOT TO HONEST
UNLESS ITS A ONE NIGHT STAND.THEN WHATEVER.
2007-08-05 23:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im a gurl and i think so.......but u got to know how far to go wit them
2007-08-05 23:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by jalyn_said_wut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋