we really like being together and i know in myself that i love him to death.
2007-08-05 15:52:31 · 22 answers · asked by jahnette08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with what your heart tells you.
2007-08-05 15:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by PixieStix 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Can you be a bit more specific about your question?
I mean, how is the relationship aspect of this? and why is age a big factor for you?
Honestly, I seen this "case" many times - maybe you are really infatuated with him and there is the whole "daddy's girl syndrome tied in with I want to be taken care of". The scenario usually deals with a girl your age and an extremely older guy. Is very erratic at best and it really doesn't work out most of the times. I can be more explicit with this if you want - and of course, don't take this to the heart, is just a stereotype meant to generalize your issue here.
I'm sorry to sound so pessimistic about it. Try being a bit more detailed with your relationship with him and maybe I can see some hope in it.
2007-08-05 23:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by altair_the_flyer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think age should matter but that stops at a certain point. Your still young and 58 years is quite old. In the end it's prolly best you date people closer to your age, at least within 10 years.
2007-08-05 23:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by multione88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 20 years old. You are an adult. If you love this man, and he treats you well, there is no reason that you should question your relationship.
Despite what your friends and family may say, this is your choice. The fact that there is such an age gap is irrelevant due to the fact that you are in love... you don't choose love, love chooses you.
Good luck to you and your relationship =)
2007-08-05 22:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married an older man. It was so much fun being with a much wiser mature man, however after we got married he started treating me more like his kid. I start calling him daddy when he talks to me like that. He doesn't like it, and I don't like being treated like a kid! I am in my mid thirties!
Do what you feel is best...but I think you'll be in for a shock down the road! Good luck!
2007-08-09 22:17:20 · answer #5 · answered by Cija 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its possible and if you truly love him then sure, but whats gonna happen after 10 or 15 years? I dont know its your decision.
2007-08-05 23:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. If thats what you like. I think its effing disgusting but its your life. Just think, when you are 40 he'll probably be dead. That is horrible! Wouldnt you want someone to spend your whole life with? Not just part of it? Can you just remain good friends with this guy and find another lover?
I cant judge you. I'm sorry. If you and him love eachother and want to make a life together, no one should keep you from doing that.
2007-08-05 22:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by I <3 my boys 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Okay first of all....YOUR STUPID!!!!
Second of all....HOW???
How could you go out with an old guy? It's not likely you will have a good relationship with him because he's old he's gonna croak sooner or later! And your totally stupid for going out with him anyway!! (but hey I'd just do it for the money honey)
2007-08-05 23:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always say age doesn't matter but dayyyuum thats different..
but um if you and your bf like being together then of curse you will be together forever well..not really cause forever doesnt seem that long when your bf is 58..you will be together forever!
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2007-08-05 22:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by CDR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you love him as a partner in life or as a Father?
I'm not asking this question to be smart, I'm just asking you to look at it in a different way.
2007-08-05 22:56:51 · answer #10 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
58? hmmm he must be a rich sugar daddy, good luck
2007-08-05 22:58:58 · answer #11 · answered by Mrs. Nolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋