Whats wrong with me?

Question

I went on a date, and slept with this girl. Except I feel kind of bad because she is such a nice girl. I mean Ive done this sort of thing a lot, but with this girl its different because she had such a hard life which I wont get into because of he privacy. I still though took advantage of her and told her how she could trust me and I would be there and then we had fantastic sex. But I had no intention of calling her, but instead just disappear from her life. Normally I dont care, but this time I do. Can I take a pill or something to make this feeling of guilt to go away?

I did take in consideration of her feelings and I am sure it was orgasmic. But as of lately no

my mother told me to have standards and never settle for less so thats what I am doing!! She would be proud of her angel (me)

Answer 1

i am so mad at you for doing this to me! i thought you really cared about me! should've known you were lying, hot guys usually do!
lol, idk what to tell you.
i think you just need to keep it between the lines 'til you come back through though, then you won't have to worry about all this lol :)
there is no pill to take, and if you really did do this, then it means your human to feel guilty, because guys usually don't , but i KNOW your not the average guy :)

just talk to her and apologize, don't just ignore the situation, that would make it much worse, especially for her :) xx

and yes, im sure you are your mothers angel :)

please be safe on your trip back ok.

Answer 2

Oh GOD we have another one. You know that's really crazy you remind me of someone. You know I'd be crazy if I said a guy like you has never walked into my life. In fact I'm in love with someone just like you. First here's a couple of questions you should ask.
1. Do you really like this girl?
2. Is she cool enough to really like kick it?
3. Is she the type that would really be down for me?
4. Is she Real?
Okay, if you answered yes then you like her. You never know when love or something good can walk in your life. Just like you don't know when it will walk out of your life. Now see before I go on. I have to let you know that it has nothing to do with her and has everything to do with her. (you keepin' up so far?) See the problem of being a REAL man and keeping it real lies with YOU. You have to ask yourself as a man what is making you run away from love. See you have been with lots of women that were one night flings. It was okay to your self-esteem because that's exactly what they were. But, you played your usual role, to in-turned get played on an accident. See you like her and she's different a little more special then the rest. That women was put in your life to work out things nobody else can. That women that when you sometimes fantasized about how you would want your "women" to be (act-like) is her. Maybe not now but if yal worked at it and you put in the effort and kept it real with her trust me that more than likely will happen. You have to wake up and realize every women ain't the same. You can't play every game that you have played. Most importantly you can't always walk away. Ask yourself why now when in reality your HEART is saying stay. Also ask yourself, Why is it that you are the one ALWAYS running away. It's much more deeper than you are the do em and leave em kind. No pill can cover up your concious, no pill can make you not listen to your heart.
Hold up. Wait a minute and THINK ABOUT IT!!!!! :)
Peace out and good luck you'll get it together.

Answer 3

You want a "feel good about what I did" pill?? You've gotta be kidding! You took advantage of a "nice girl" that had a hard life and that you told her she could "trust" you, had sex with her with the intent of just "disappearing" out of her life and now you want a "pill" to make you feel better??? You deserve to feel every bit of "bad" you are feeling. Let me ask...did you even stop to think about how she might be feeling?? Probably not! Selfish, very very selfish.

Answer 4

thats wrong that you took advantage of the girl and lied to her that she could trust you =/.. and it was wrong to just disappear from her life and youve said shes such a nice girl.. if you feel guilty, the only solution i can think of is get in contact w/ her and ask for forgiveness, if she still doesnt forgive you, at least you some what got it off your chest right?

Answer 5

Well obviously you have feelings for this girl and no pill can make that go away. I bet your guilt will go away though if you CALL HER. But if you still don't pursue this girl I still wouldn't make a habit of lying to girls to get them in bed, remember, what goes around comes around. But I would take the first option and call her.

Answer 6

OF COURSE YOU CAN'T TAKE PILLS FOR THE GUILT!

Go call her and ask how shes doing...get in touch with her again....SAY SORRY for not calling her back and not keeping in touch! ALL YOU GOTTA DO IS BE HER FRIEND!

Don't keep having sex for just any women! And take their virginity! DON'T DO IT ANYMORE!!!! Plz i'm asking you
go become a catholic! Read the bible!

What goes around comes around!

Hope could help!

Answer 7

You ***, you finally feel bad for hurting someone and instead of learning from it, you want to ignore it.

Imagine how this poor girl feels after you lied to her and used her. Instead of making her feel better, you added to her pain. How the hell is she ever going to trust anyone again if jerks like you keep messing with her?

Your mother must be so proud of her little monster.

Answer 8

I get guilt all the time i know it's a bad felling but it will pass over time :D. the best thing for you to do is to go to her and tell her how you feel about what you did. and say your sorry. I KNOW she'' understand everything and you'll feel much better trust me man and good luck,

Answer 9

no you can't take a pill to make it go away. u feel bad because you did something bad. live with it or find a way to make it right.

Answer 10

No you shouldn't take pills not a good thing to do.

You should talk to her and tell her exactly what you just wrote up there.