okay so my boyfriend is really nice to me around me and calls me names and stuff and ignores me around his friend and he flirts with my bff and so does she.....when i try to break up with him i just cant cuz i like hi soo much what should i do!?!?
2007-08-05 15:31:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you like him so much? He ignores you in front of his friends and flirts with your best friend (and SHE FLIRTS BACK??) Sounds like they both are not the best people to be around as they don't have you in their best interest. Have some pride, any guy who does not respect you is not worth your time.
2007-08-05 15:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by Allison H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's a couple things that could be going on..........
he COULD be flirting with your friend to make you want him more
he COULD really like her. but why wouldn't he just break up with you if he did like her?
he is PROBABLY showing off in front of his friends when he calls you names....but that doesn't mean you hsould just take it. Embarrass him in front of his friends the next time it happens by saying "Why do you always call me names around your friends....you never do that when we're alone....are you showing off?"
Ask your bff if she likes him, or if she knows that he likes her. If she is really your friend, she'll tell the truth. It's hard to tell if someone's telling the truth, but if she's been trustworthy in the past, I would believe her, unless it's really obvious she's lying.
I think that's about all you can do if you REALL REALLY don't want to break up with him. But if it's at all possible, just break it off. It's for your own good if he's really being a jerk.
2007-08-05 22:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by nerdquest79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him how you feel and that you don't like to be treated like that around his friends and definately tell him to stop flirting with your best friend..also i would talk to you "best friend" cuz if she is flirting back to him, obviously she's not being a very good friend or she likes him so i would talk to her too. if i were you, i would think about about you like him because if he doesn't treat you good around other people and is flirting with other girls, you shouldn't like him because he doesn't deserve you and you can do so much better. if you talk to him and he still doesnt treat you right..just break up with him. it may be hard but you will get over him and find another love. believe me i know. theres better guys out there then him. you deserve to be treated right.
2007-08-05 22:40:05 · answer #3 · answered by xoohollisteroox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. If he like you he would show you a little more respect around his friends and not flirt with anyone else but you. You don't need him.
2007-08-05 22:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by DMD3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ERASE EMBRACE REPLACE 4get him there's a hotter guy out there ur just going to get hurt worse if u stik around LEAVE HIS *** lol!!!!! guys suk u gotta beat em at their own game stay a step ahead of him
2007-08-05 22:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by peachytreezie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just confront him about flirting with your friend and tell him how you feel. And see if that settles it if notbreak up with him.
Because it sounds like you still have feelings
2007-08-05 22:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let him know what you think and if he keep treating you like that just walk away, you deserve better.
2007-08-05 22:36:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him on it. If he's still a jerk he's not worth your time.
2007-08-05 22:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by Seung Hee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl brake up with him go with another guy
2007-08-05 22:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋