Singles & Dating - 25 July 2007

what do u like him/her 2 do 2 u, and what is a total turnoff???

2007-07-25 07:08:21 · 11 answers · asked by cmockica 1

i like to find one girl for me and that 's call me jason

2007-07-25 07:04:52 · 6 answers · asked by jason c 1

My boyfriend and i were broken up for about 4 months and in that time he made a close friend who was a girl and they spent alot of time together. she lived in a dif city and they visited each other on the weekends. i am certain that nothing is going on now that we are back together, but he keeps telling me that he just liked her as a friend while she wanted to be more than that and thats why they dont talk anymore. I am not convinced and think that something else was going on. a friend of mine just told me another piece of information last night that got me thinking about it again, and i am bothered by it because i just dont know the truth. what i am wondering is if i should confrotn him again and once again try to get the truth out of him or if i should let what was in the past be in the past even though it will be hard for me since i do think something went on between them that was more than a friendship???

2007-07-25 07:04:49 · 19 answers · asked by Lynne. 2

his girl that I like lives in my apt complex. I like her and i think she is very attractive. When i'm coming in from work we bump into one another as she leaves for work. We have said hey, whats up to one another. I have hold the door open for here a few times she has said aww thanks im very sweet. Last friday when i was coming in as she left she said that im very nice and charming and cool. we formally introduced ourselves to one another last week, and I saw her on the phone as i was walkin towards my car she said hey whats up while she was on her phone. i havent seen her with a guy in da complex but one time a long time ago. does that mean she is single? what should i do next? does she like me? thanks

2007-07-25 06:59:00 · 10 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

I really like this guy. He told me he liked me 2 :)))
But no 1 liked him before I did and know every1 does.. I havent had a chance 2 talk 2 him about it yet.. Idk wat 2 do bc i dont want 2 loose friendships, but I relly lik the guy help me plz

2007-07-25 06:53:53 · 1 answers · asked by kate c 1

He and I been other about two years and i got pergant on some lonly night and now he has a girlfriend . She just like me. She going school like me and she belevile in that hocospoce and etc. But that not the issue, he love me and want me but he can't forgive me for what happen two years ago but i forgive him and that the issue What should i do with him?

2007-07-25 06:52:31 · 1 answers · asked by Cosandra T 1

I knew thisgirl for awhile... we always date on and off. Well, I called it off AGAIN last night... she said she likes me alot... but I did not see either of us taking it to actually being with one another.

One thing I noticed is once we went from being flirts... drunken convos... to more serious... quite atmospheres... the convo went dead.

I have a sarcastic, goofy personality... and will talk if need be... but the closer we got the quieter she got.

She's had some BF's whom which I know I am more intelligent, and just overall have a better personality.... but the convo was dry at times ... it was either we had fun drinking, sleeping together, or making fun of one another...

Do you think it was because we got serious too quick b/c we've known each other for so long... I mean it was only a couple weeks and we were talking ..IMO.. wayyy too much everyday.

Anyway... what are some topics of convo to hit off everyday... I am more interested for future use than this past 1.

2007-07-25 06:50:13 · 1 answers · asked by Baby Bulls 2

This guy who I really like is still pissed off at me even though it's already been a week and he's mad at me becuz I asked him if he could hook me up with one of his boys even though we were talking and interested in eachother, but the reason why I asked him that was because I thought he was ignoring me and I just wanted his attention and see if he's trying to play me or not..Because he was asking me if he can come and have sex with me and he said that was just a joke. I been emailing him and leaving him messages saying I'm sorry and stuff..But he's still ignoring me. He really liked me as much as I did though..I can tell. What should I do? I been crying over him and now it's like a living hell because I can't live without him and I have deep feelings for him..I try to move on but I can't..without him I just cant. But I havent told him about this feeling about how much it hurts. What should I do? All he knows is that I'm so sorry but he doesn't know how I'm feeling rite now.
Of course I wouldn't be serious about if he could hook me up with one of his boys. I just wanted his attention since I thought he was ignorin me and wanted to make him jealous to see if he was trying to play me or not

2007-07-25 06:46:35 · 3 answers · asked by NeNe 1

I am just getting back into the dating scene after a split w/ my ex-fiance two year so ofcourse I am rusty at flirting, dating, etc. I am an outgoing person & am not afraid to chat it up with a stranger. Several years ago, some friends of mine pointed out that I am friendly & talkative with men that I am not interested in and yet clam up & don't show any interest in the men that I am interested in. I recently noticed it & discover that they are right. I suppose it has to do with intimidation or shyness. I am comfortable with the men that I am not attracted to thus can talk to them for hours. The men that I am interested in barely hear two words from me, if that. My problem is that men get the wrong signals from me. Any advice? BWT I am in my late 20's. So please, adults answer only. Thanks for your input.

2007-07-25 06:44:57 · 7 answers · asked by Abby 1

This one is a long one, but I tried summing it up the best I could.

I’ve been dating this guy for a 1 ½ year now. There was moment of bliss that turned out to be a strong bond and love for each other. I never felt so connected to someone, except for when I was with my first love when I was 18, I am now 31.

We never fought. I am the social butterfly and he’s the laid back type. We seem to fit like hand and glove.

A short time had passed after we first started dating. Then the bomb hit. I found out, he is a cocaine addict. I was shocked and so deeply hurt and disappointed.

How could something so real, so right, that I have waited for, for so long end up so wrong?

I cried like a baby. Every time I find someone, something has to be so horribly wrong with them! I feel cursed!

My past speaks for itself. I have dated a long line of losers and users. This one didn’t carry those characteristics. He wasn’t mean, he wasn’t trying hard to impress. He was just himself, and a sweetheart at that.

This is what made it so difficult for me to detach at that time. I saw potential in him. I saw so much good, and so I invested myself in him to hopefully make a difference. The other girls he dated were not of the best kind and I was the most stable “normal” woman he ever dated. His parents even agreed and hoped things would get better.

They did….for a short time. Then, just when things started looking up, just when he started doing better at work, got a car, caught up on bills and began repairing his relationships he’d screw up again!

It has been like a roller coaster and I feel so much empathy for his mother and father, for what he has been putting them through for years.

Just recently he checked himself into a rehab for a week. He then followed up with out patient care and meetings. He “graduated” from that, and has gotten a new job and new car.

Mind you it had been some time since he had a car last, and the last time he did, he totaled it on purpose and went on a cocaine binge.

The first day with the car, he disappears for over an hour, when he tells his father he is going to drop off a prescription. He comes back and of course, his parents aren’t happy.
There’s virtually no trust left, and I don’t blame them, because I have so little myself.

He took off again then came back a little later. I wanted him to come over last night, because I was going to be all alone in my apartment. I don’t like being alone. So, he was supposed to be on his way, when he never showed up. He called me at around 1:30am stating that he just needed to be alone and was just driving around. Mind you, his father had just given him $15, so you know what we all were thinking.

I was just so hurt and ticked! I couldn’t believe he was doing this. Just a week before we came back from vacation and he couldn’t wait to go home, or so I thought, but in reality he went out and used again!

He just seems to expect a lot, and wants everyone to turn the page. It isn’t that easy. I love this guy, but I can’t trust him and it frustrates me. I also have an 11 year old son. I know what I need to do, but my heart doesn’t know how to do it. I don’t want to be stuck in this crazy whirlwind anymore; at the same time my heart is broken. What should I do?

2007-07-25 06:38:59 · 18 answers · asked by Deni 1

all i have is 20 bucks and i am artistically challenged so making a card is out

2007-07-25 06:34:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would really rather not, the whole idea grosses me out. And this one guy was all huffy about it, so I dumped him. We weren't really close so it didn't matter, but am I going to continue to run into this problem down the road? Is this something that men really like to take part in? Is it even healthy? It's not like the most sterol area....

2007-07-25 06:34:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy who I really like is still pissed off at me even though it's already been a week and he's mad at me becuz I asked him if he could hook me up with one of his boys even though we were talking and interested in eachother, but the reason why I asked him that was because I thought he was ignoring me and I just wanted his attention and see if he's trying to play me or not..Because he was asking me if he can come and have sex with me and he said that was just a joke. I been emailing him and leaving him messages saying I'm sorry and stuff..But he's still ignoring me. He really liked me as much as I did though..I can tell. What should I do? I been crying over him and now it's like a living hell because I can't live without him and I have deep feelings for him..I try to move on but I can't..without him I just cant. But I havent told him about this feeling about how much it hurts. What should I do? All he knows is that I'm so sorry but he doesn't know how I'm feeling rite now.

2007-07-25 06:33:31 · 1 answers · asked by NeNe 1

I feel like everytime me and my girlfriend hang out, it's like i always want to.

of course i don't mind not doing it, as long as i'm with her, but when we don't, i feel kinda disappointed.

i feel addicted, and i think it's best if i get rid of that.

2007-07-25 06:31:59 · 10 answers · asked by eckstralime07 1

his girl that I like lives in my apt complex. I like her and i think she is very attractive. When i'm coming in from work we bump into one another as she leaves for work. We have said hey, whats up to one another. I have hold the door open for here a few times she has said aww thanks im very sweet. Last friday when i was coming in as she left she said that im very nice and charming and cool. we formally introduced ourselves to one another last week, and I saw her on the phone as i was walkin towards my car she said hey whats up while she was on her phone. i havent seen her with a guy in da complex but one time a long time ago. does that mean she is single? what should i do next? does she like me? thanks

2007-07-25 06:31:07 · 25 answers · asked by tbg1982 1

I told her how much I like her finally... told her that I would be always her... but she said she is already engaged... which I am not sure... but I got the answer :( :(.. anyways... just told her in the end that I would be always there for her & I am very happy that she is engaged.. but on the other side a lot sad too of losing someone that you like more than anything else... she told me that she did not even think of me as Friends.. anywyas... I will be always there to help her..
But since telling her... I am really depressed... just can not imagine my dream of being with her someday is over :(..
Please tell me if I did right thing by telling her ? Sometimes I feel it could have been better if I had not tell her... coz atleast I could have helped her... now she might hesitate to ask any help from me... Please help me ! :(

2007-07-25 06:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by Dhruv 1

I feel so sick like somebody jus ripped my heart out stepped on it and put it back in my body. I also have the worst stomach pains ever like i have to vomit every minute. I can't even eat like i want and i cry like every hour. Is this normsl after a break-up?

2007-07-25 06:25:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think its stupid that they only like our boons why cant they like us for something else

2007-07-25 06:23:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i caught my exboyfriend in bed with my bestfriend and we breake up a month later i meet someone else we are going out for two month and he want to propose to me for my birthday what should i do im not sure if i still have feeling for my ex but my new boyfriend treat me very good and want to married me

2007-07-25 06:22:58 · 17 answers · asked by unforgetable 2

afer serving 21 years and never had a girl friend what do i do

2007-07-25 06:21:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

to be in love when your 16?Or how do u know its love?

2007-07-25 06:20:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

such as a stranger girl you odnt know at the gym or pool??

2007-07-25 06:17:21 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2

She was really hurt , and i think itz gonna be really uncomfortable when we werk a shift together. i feel kinda bad. should I???

2007-07-25 06:14:25 · 22 answers · asked by Shamir 1

I was resently broken up with. And I'm finding myself just out on the prowl of doing "bad" things. It freaks me out a little. I mean I find myself going to parties, raves, etc. Just to get my mind off of things with one of my best friends.. Were not staying true to our morals and finding any excuse to "party." (with or without drugs)

Is it okay to feel like this? Am I losing myself? Is this because her and I both lost a loved one that we are turning to the "dark side?"

Uckk, I will say that given the chance to do anything over again this month I totally would.
I don't do regret.

I'm just confused on if these are excuses to being "bad" kids.

2007-07-25 06:14:12 · 5 answers · asked by Mo' Sigg 2

Why?

2007-07-25 06:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by Vexi_Lexi 4

If you found a guy who was all into listening to all those love songs would that be a turn off for you?

2007-07-25 06:11:38 · 23 answers · asked by Zach 2

NOT spill the beans if you know who I'm talking about? I hope so !!! Well here it is. I have been trying to get with this girl for over a year , our daughters have become best friends now , and although we don't ever talk to each other much , she knows that I have been hot for her all this time.We have fooled around a few times this past year , 1st & 2nd base but nothing really to write home about. That is until last thursday...O M G !!! Yeah it was that good ! See here is the thing -she wants to keep it on the "down-low" she doesn't want the girls to know ANYTHING- or anyone else for that matter. NSA we both agreed. But I can't stop thinking about her and I am finding it hard to hold back calling her and persuing her.SO should I go for it and risk blowing the whole deal , or play it cool and wait for herto come to me , knowing that it may be a long time comming again? I want to go right now,pick her up ,and go get a room andnot waste another minute! I know it's all so jr.high school !

2007-07-25 06:09:52 · 8 answers · asked by budlowsbro420 4

2007-07-25 06:09:17 · 30 answers · asked by Rumana 2

i can find cool guys and nice at same time!!!

2007-07-25 06:08:54 · 1 answers · asked by MADELINE 2 1

The story is... bout 6 months ago, i found out i liked this friend of mine, i expressed my feelings towards her, she was taken back about how it could happen. it took me awhile to muster up the courage to tell her and she did say that if things didn't work out we would remain as friends, i tried to make things work, but it is pretty hard if i am the one making all the moves and stuff, such as picking her up from work and etc..but it always seemed that she is busy and we did have a conversation about how it is not working out. so after that, i did not contact her for a couple of weeks, and all of a sudden she called me, but i did not bother to talk to her ,

was it too immature of me? i mean i suspected she was going out with some1 else and i confirmed it the other night...So what is wrong with me?any clues?? i have had my fair share of rejections, so i do not take such moves of expression lightly...

2007-07-25 06:06:03 · 1 answers · asked by Panda 2