NOT spill the beans if you know who I'm talking about? I hope so !!! Well here it is. I have been trying to get with this girl for over a year , our daughters have become best friends now , and although we don't ever talk to each other much , she knows that I have been hot for her all this time.We have fooled around a few times this past year , 1st & 2nd base but nothing really to write home about. That is until last thursday...O M G !!! Yeah it was that good ! See here is the thing -she wants to keep it on the "down-low" she doesn't want the girls to know ANYTHING- or anyone else for that matter. NSA we both agreed. But I can't stop thinking about her and I am finding it hard to hold back calling her and persuing her.SO should I go for it and risk blowing the whole deal , or play it cool and wait for herto come to me , knowing that it may be a long time comming again? I want to go right now,pick her up ,and go get a room andnot waste another minute! I know it's all so jr.high school !
2007-07-25 06:09:52 · 8 answers · asked by budlowsbro420 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well.... LOL at least you had a good time on Thursday, I had to read the post twice to understand but this is quite interesting.
I say wait it out, go out with another good looking woman and wait for this other friend to come back to you, most of us get jealous you know.
2007-07-25 06:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by The Coug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be wondering why she wanted to keep it on the 'down low' It makes me think that she's just in it for the booty call and not for an actual relationship of any kind. So you need to figure out what you want with this woman and if just sex is enough for you.
2007-07-25 06:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by traceylenore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooh.. thats a hard one.. there is a fine line between being persistent and being needy... i dont think u are the latter of the two... but still it may come off that way to her... LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!!! i understand you may have done that already.. but tell her.. u need more!!! ask her why she doesnt want anyone else to know about this... has she been hurt in the past??? there are several factors that may be being left out here...
2007-07-25 06:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by krys1319 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things she'll feel very weird, yes do respect her and wait if ur willing to love her and wait for her for all this time then you've given her the world..... ^_^
2007-07-25 06:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by brown_cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her and let her know how you feel..by calling her your not letting anyone else whats going on between you to..tell her how youve liked her for so long and that one night together meant a lot to you
2007-07-25 06:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by em0410 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly if you use so many abbreviations then also give a note explaining them and secondly its always better to wait.if she interested she will certainly come to you hurry and haste are indeed antonyms for love!!
2007-07-25 06:22:01 · answer #6 · answered by ANNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask her because shes probably waiting for you too. you only dont want to call for a while and make her call if you dont have her. but she is yours it seems so call her and tell her that you miss her.
2007-07-25 06:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by giarc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
RESPECT is the first thing I look for in a man. If you do not RESPECT her wishes, then forget about it!
Love and romance are much more than sex.
2007-07-25 06:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋