I told her how much I like her finally... told her that I would be always her... but she said she is already engaged... which I am not sure... but I got the answer :( :(.. anyways... just told her in the end that I would be always there for her & I am very happy that she is engaged.. but on the other side a lot sad too of losing someone that you like more than anything else... she told me that she did not even think of me as Friends.. anywyas... I will be always there to help her..
But since telling her... I am really depressed... just can not imagine my dream of being with her someday is over :(..
Please tell me if I did right thing by telling her ? Sometimes I feel it could have been better if I had not tell her... coz atleast I could have helped her... now she might hesitate to ask any help from me... Please help me ! :(
2007-07-25 06:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by Dhruv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did the right thing. Now you can move on.
2007-07-25 06:30:34 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little confused
"she told me that she did not even think of me as Friends"
Do you mean she only thought of you as a friend? Are you friends or she's just someone you know and you told her about your feelings toward her?
What type of help does she need exactly?
Expressing yourself is better than wondering What if? You have your answer so do your best to move forward.
I'm sorry your hurting right now but don't try to interject yourself in her life. She is getting married and starting a new chapter.
2007-07-25 13:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by rcButterfly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only truly feel bad because you put yourself out there only to get run over. That is normal F.Y.I never reveal your feelings unless you can handle the truth or if you know that person likes you just the same. I think most of us has slipped by telling someone how we feel but you will get over, I think you should move you are only going to push her away. Feel good that you let her know and now she knows. She won't be the first you confess your feelings to, but next time you will know how, right? Much love, and good luck champ.
2007-07-25 13:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in wrong dreams !
you are liking some one who do not think of you at all !
at the same time you feel that she is loosinga person like you who likes more !
you are also thiking that she may loos the help from you !
all these are illusionary, imaginory things in the age!
you not right !!in expressing your illusions to her
2007-07-25 13:37:43 · answer #4 · answered by raj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better you said what you said... otherwise you would be living in a dream that could never come true...
2007-07-25 13:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by aspicco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would have never told her it would have bothered you for the rest of your life. Now you can move on.
2007-07-25 13:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sheree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right this but if she doesn't feel the same back then just find someone else
I know there is someone out there for everyone including you
2007-07-25 13:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh huh sure
2007-07-25 13:45:54 · answer #8 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋