i caught my exboyfriend in bed with my bestfriend and we breake up a month later i meet someone else we are going out for two month and he want to propose to me for my birthday what should i do im not sure if i still have feeling for my ex but my new boyfriend treat me very good and want to married me
2007-07-25 06:22:58 · 17 answers · asked by unforgetable 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never go into a big commitment with doubts, but your ex slept with your best friend. Once a cheater always a cheater. How can you even look at him when he treats you like that. You need some perspective. He slept with another girl what is keeping him from doing it again. Forget about him...this one treats you like a princess. Follow your heart.
2007-07-25 06:26:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In All Honesty You May Have feelings For Your Ex Still Because You Were In Love With Him.. But Here Is What You Need To Think About It What You Want WHat You Really Need??
Do You Need Your Ex To Keep Cheating On You???
Or Do You Need Someone To Love You For You And Treat You Right???
And Also Be Honest With Your New Boyfriend See What He Thinks About t Because If YOu Plan On Being With Him For The Rest Of YOur Life It Is Always Good To Be Open And Honest With Your Partner...
I Say Go For The New And Leave The Old In The Past BUt End It On Good Terms With Your Ex Nothing Wrong With Being Just Friends With Your Ex
2007-07-25 06:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months is pretty quick. Ask what the rush is?
We're talking about a lifetime commitment here.
There is an old saying, marry in haste, repent at leisure.
You might consider pre-marital counseling, at the very least a long engagement.
Another question, why did it take you a month to break up with a guy who was clearly a skank, cheating on you with your "best friend"? What would make you consider going back to someone who cheated on you?
You might take some time to consider just who is, or is not, your friend.
Luck
2007-07-25 06:25:53 · answer #3 · answered by spam_free_he_he 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months with a new guy, right after catching your old BF in the sack with your best friend??? Are you nuts even thinking about engagement???? You have not recovered from the breakup, and right now think that engagement will make you feel better about yourself.
Try dating the guy two years first! By the way -- he's not just saying he wants to get engaged just to get you in bed, is he???
2007-07-25 06:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just slow done there. You went out with this new man way too soon after you finished with your ex. Let him propose if he wants to, but tell him you want more time to get to know him better before you can give him an answer.
2007-07-25 06:27:24 · answer #5 · answered by Normsgirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do any thing you are not ready for. If you need more time to get your feelings sorted out you need to take time to do that. Otherwise if you get married because he wants it you might just end up in divorce. And if he loves you enough to want to marry you than he will understand if you are just not ready for marriage. And that you still love him but just need some time before you take that next step. Good luck!
2007-07-25 06:26:40 · answer #6 · answered by butterfly_2blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be over the ex. Don't be marrying some guy you've only known for 2 months.
2007-07-25 06:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lady G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After two months, you are thinking about getting married?
You might want to give it more time, hon.
Heartbreak can take a while to work through.
I wish you the best!
2007-07-25 06:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by diva_500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! It's too soon, tell him that you would love to,but you don't want to rush into things. Don't mention anything about your ex, just talk it over with your present boyfriend and hopefully he'll understand.
2007-07-25 06:33:45 · answer #9 · answered by Ambi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no to the ex and no to the proposal. You don't know anyone in two months and he is asking for something that is "SUPPOSED" to be for life. WAKE UP!
2007-07-25 06:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by Solomon Grundy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋