Who am I????????????????

Question

I was resently broken up with. And I'm finding myself just out on the prowl of doing "bad" things. It freaks me out a little. I mean I find myself going to parties, raves, etc. Just to get my mind off of things with one of my best friends.. Were not staying true to our morals and finding any excuse to "party." (with or without drugs)

Is it okay to feel like this? Am I losing myself? Is this because her and I both lost a loved one that we are turning to the "dark side?"

Uckk, I will say that given the chance to do anything over again this month I totally would.
I don't do regret.

I'm just confused on if these are excuses to being "bad" kids.

Answer 1

Yeah, you're lashing out. Being a rebel because you feel that doing what's right isn't getting you the right guy.

But, just have patience... Be yourself. If you start hanging with the "bad" crowd, you'll find guys that were worse than before... So save yourself the time.

They tell me someone will come eventually... :)

Answer 2

Hi.

I was brought here because the initial question is a really important one. Once I read the whole thing though I see that any answer I could give you would be from a guy's persective and it would not be good advice for you.

But I do know of a woman whose early years were very much like you are describing and I think you should check out her stuff. She has a site www.marianne.com

All the best to you and yours

Answer 3

I've been there. I'm still kinda there. The true answers lies within yourself. Nobody could tell you who you are and although I still haven't found myself I know only I can find the answer. Sux but it's life.

Answer 4

you're alright.. just don't do anything too stupid... like get pregnant or DUI... other than partying what are you doing with your life?? are you going to school? work?

Answer 5

YOUR HOT THATS WHO YOU ARE!