Anyone help... convo/topic help???

Question

I knew thisgirl for awhile... we always date on and off. Well, I called it off AGAIN last night... she said she likes me alot... but I did not see either of us taking it to actually being with one another.

One thing I noticed is once we went from being flirts... drunken convos... to more serious... quite atmospheres... the convo went dead.

I have a sarcastic, goofy personality... and will talk if need be... but the closer we got the quieter she got.

She's had some BF's whom which I know I am more intelligent, and just overall have a better personality.... but the convo was dry at times ... it was either we had fun drinking, sleeping together, or making fun of one another...

Do you think it was because we got serious too quick b/c we've known each other for so long... I mean it was only a couple weeks and we were talking ..IMO.. wayyy too much everyday.

Anyway... what are some topics of convo to hit off everyday... I am more interested for future use than this past 1.

I need help with TOPICS of convo... things to stimulate a girls mind and help her open up. We talk great when we're not "together"....

Maybe sleeping together without a relationship ruined things? Who knows.

Answer 1

Muahahhahahah I DO! Yep, I know some, but not all, that would make life boring.... ether way! You know the anwser yourself, you said it! Quote " She's had some BF's whom which I know I am moe intelligent, and just overall have a better personality...." The reason I quote this is because you know then that she is actually less emotionally well off, intelligently well off, and chances are personality too. See if she pick guys like that its because she actuall feels they're better or the same as her. Now you enter the picture, guess what, your the PIMP to her bro. Your something new, special, and unfornutnely chances are EASY FOR HER TO F UP!!! See she still holds bagange from those last relationships that centers around the fact there not there! You are thou. So its time to talk more, about your guys story (your history outside of each other, EVERYTHING!!! EVEN THE THINGS YOU WISH YOU FORGOT!), time to talk more honestly about the present situation too, what your doing, what you think about, how your think about, why, etc, etc, And the most important one to THE FUTURE! Time to talk about hopes, dreams, passions. Everything and anything, if you running out of things to say its because your not sure exactly what your place is with her. Lets just say what you guys make together is yours, and yours alone, this is Your guys territory, Now handling it like you love her buddy, because love is more then just warm fuzzy feelings like when I use to climb the rope in gym class, its about apply those feelings to help you thru things like this, time for some COMPASSION, PASSION, and UNDERSTANDING! And it would seem the frist thing to understand is that chances are you might just itimadate her, slow down, find her level, and love the kid!