She is going out with someone else....I would like some opinions on what could i do.?

Question

The story is... bout 6 months ago, i found out i liked this friend of mine, i expressed my feelings towards her, she was taken back about how it could happen. it took me awhile to muster up the courage to tell her and she did say that if things didn't work out we would remain as friends, i tried to make things work, but it is pretty hard if i am the one making all the moves and stuff, such as picking her up from work and etc..but it always seemed that she is busy and we did have a conversation about how it is not working out. so after that, i did not contact her for a couple of weeks, and all of a sudden she called me, but i did not bother to talk to her ,

was it too immature of me? i mean i suspected she was going out with some1 else and i confirmed it the other night...So what is wrong with me?any clues?? i have had my fair share of rejections, so i do not take such moves of expression lightly...

Answer 1

Really its sort of the consequence of having relationships based on the fantasy of romance as oppose to the reality of love. Two very different things, but blame the knights, king aurther and that stupid code of chivary for that no sense. Shoot romance when out the door really with arrange marriages but humanity likes a good fantasy. Ether way you did it the classical way, so did she, and you guys ended classically. Really I think the most honest action you took was not saying anything to her, because I'm more then sure it came down to the fact that you didn't have a clue on what to say, what you wanted, and more importantly what you needed from here, which makes it EXTEMELY diffucult to talk to a person. Ether way next time realize that friends can make incredible lovers, but lovers really make piss poor friends, so next time work on the "relat"ionship as oppose to the romance. Also don't EVER fight for someone who doesn't fight for you.