I was in a 5 year relationship where I was strung along (friend, lover, friend, lover, friend, lover - over and over again). It was madness. Took me everything to get out of that cycle, three years.
I'm starting to seriously date again. Now there's this woman I'm REALLY connecting with. It's still way too early to tell how connected she feels to me. Frankly, I think she's keeping herself available for other guys as she's new to the town and she's very attractive. Our chemistry is undeniable, but it's scaring me in the most paralyzing way because I'm reminded of being "stung along" before. I feel like an old, shell-shocked war vet or something. Anyway, her behavior is normal for a young single woman out and about, dating, having a good time. I'm feeling like I'm taking this all too seriously, and I'm afraid of scaring her off. I've been quiet about it, but I'm getting antsy. Should I date others to keep myself distracted? Should I suffer? Please, if you have any advice, please share!
2007-05-24
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