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drop her dead

2007-05-24 19:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Raineli 3 · 1 1

if you're not even married yet and have a cheating girlfriend, it's a recipe for disaster ahead, don't plan for any serious things in your forecast yet you might want to resolve the issue in your relationship by finding out what is your relationship lacking that she feels she needs to cheat to get that you can't provide. If you don't get straight answers, you gotta let her go no matter how much you love her.

I had my first true love boyfriend of 4 years previously whom had done this from very beginning and i kept convincing myself that he'll change, he never did and after a while we just had to part ways. I'm still getting over him not because he deserved to be loved but because i chose to love him. So out of love, do let her go if she doesn't see you the way you see her. Obviously she doesn't respect you or your feelings or else she wouldn't be cheating in the first place. Unless she doesn't love you cuz you're nice guy then that's the problem maybe she doesn't want to break up with you for fear that she'll break your heart and that you'll harm yourself since she knows how you feel about her. So do have a clear and personal communication with her and then decide!!!!!!!

Good luck

2007-05-24 19:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by bEiNg DiScIpLiNeD 5 · 1 0

When you say Cheating, it sounds like multiple times. If that's the case get out quick. She's using you as a security blanket and she will only make you miserable. She will definitely drive you totally crazy if you let her.

I remember driving all over the city trying to find an ex. When I found her, trouble followed. It's better to cut your loses now and find a dependable, non-cheating woman.

2007-05-24 19:43:06 · answer #3 · answered by Brian A 2 · 1 0

Well me personally if I know a girl is cheating on me, I would break up with them. I mean especially if she cheats once she will do it again. However another way you can handle it is by cheating back on her, you know an eye for an eye. to see how she likes it

2007-05-24 19:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

God says to love your neighbor (this means all people, even your enemies), if you love your girlfriend then that is a good thing...but that does not mean it is healthy for you to be with somone who doesn't love you back, mistakes happen...we all sin...but God doesn't want you to be with someone who is repeatedly cheating on you, he has someone in mind for you...someone special...I'm not saying that your girlfriend isn't her...what I am saying is what if she isn't the person you should be with? are you with her for the right reasons...what if you were the cheater...would you cheat on someone you loved more than once? if the answer is no, then you might have something to think about...God bless!

2007-05-24 19:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by goughb77 2 · 0 0

You deal with her by getting rid of her. This is like an old, torn up couch that you cannot save, no matter how many memories you've had with it. Obviously she does not love you back. Also, you should check into your own self esteem issues.

2007-05-24 19:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Figure out why you have such low self-esteem that you would let someone treat you that way. Respect yourself first and others will learn to respect you, too.

If someone really loves you, they won't do this to you so no matter how much you love her, she doesn't feel the same.

Personally, I love myself enough to not put up with someone who would treat me this way. I'd talk with her and tell her she has one more chance and if she blows that, you are gone.

And if she does, get out of there. You deserve so much better and there is someone out there who is ready to love And respect you for who you are.

Good luck

2007-05-24 19:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 1 0

TURN THAT LOVE OF YOURS INTO SELF LOVE. You need to get your self esteem up and find someone who will make you feel good about yourself. Stop allowing yourself to be abused this way. Dump the loose Lizzy and find a tight Kitty!

2007-05-24 21:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

How does a person love someone who does not love them and is disrespectful enough to sleep around too? That's like thanking a gunman for shooting you - I think they call that masochistic? Personally, I would NOT deal with people who treat me like dirt - period.

2007-05-24 19:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0 0

leave her!!!!! i know its hard, but i think it would be best. if she cared bout you at all she wouldnt cheat all the time or one time for that matter. She isnt for you man. Meet some other girsl right after you dump her to help keep your mind off her...try not to use them as a rebound(explain your situation).

good luck pimpin.

2007-05-24 19:39:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hitman

2007-05-24 19:37:58 · answer #11 · answered by No I Dont Like You 3 · 2 1

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