I've tried calling 3 times, left voice mails, sent a few texts, sent a Myspace message (that she read, but did not reply) and I ended up dropping a dozen roses with a note at her place, and still no response. Do you think she is punishing me for being so needy? (the argument came down to this) Tomorrow is our 6 month anniversary and I have something special planned, but it's been bugging me all day that she won't say a single word to me.
2007-05-24 18:50:40 · 10 answers · asked by autumnchase 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You said 'needy', and you did well. The more you will be after her, the more she will punish you. Today, don't call her at all. The same tomorow, even if she doesn't call you. It's not risky : when you call her, she doesn't answer. If she really wants you, after two days of silence, she will jump on the phone when you will finally call her. And when you finally call, do it only once, whatever she answers or not. If you aren't cool, if she feels her silence makes you unsecure, she will go on her game AND lose respect for you FOR EVER.
2007-05-24 19:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like much of a girlfriend. She may be trying to make you mad enough to break up with her. I've heard of girls who try to break up the way you are describing.
Unless something serious happened to her and she's in a hospital somewhere, get out while the getting is good! What would you do if she was your wife and treated you this way?
There are too many girls out there who are waiting for a guy like you--only they won't talk to you because they know you are already taken.
I also agree with everyone else who says don't act so desperate. When you are in a relationship, half of it is to know when to back off a little so the other person doesn't feel smothered. Also, if you begin ignoring her, it will give her a feeling of power when she "wins" you back.
Give a girl a little bit of a challenge. Don't be her doormat. You deserve a lot better!
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2007-05-24 18:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by oooooolala! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 03:57:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only going to bother her even more if you keep bugging her while shes pissed, give her time to cool off damn it, you way over did it with all the phone calls,my space and the texting... shell call when shes not so mad, and you can take her to do your special plans when you guys make up later.
2007-05-24 18:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should put a card on her front door & say that you have something special planned maybe ( if she's worth it) she will show up & you guys will become a couple again. But for a couple days stop & just leave her be. After a while she will see how much she nees you!!!!!!!
2007-05-24 18:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jayyycie☺ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you, my friend need to learn a thing or two about women. but dont be worried because us guys have all been in your place.
with age, we learn what works and what doesnt. so now that i am 33 years old i can tell you what works best and what did not work when i was 18.
you ignore her. you simply dont write emails to her or call her or send any more flowers to her. dont do anything at all.
in a week she will be calling you. the key to women is to ignore them. no, not ignore them forever. but ignore them for a while. it works, trust me.
2007-05-24 18:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous1041091812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing worse than a desperate man. Cool it, you sound like a stalker.
2007-05-24 18:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent a limo and arrive in a tux. You would have had to really f*&% up for her to turn that down.
2007-05-24 18:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by SapphireSeaFairy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a doctor. I'm going to go ahead and write you a prescription for Two Testicles. Booya!
2007-05-24 18:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Call her best friend up thats single and show her a good time :)
2007-05-24 18:53:52 · answer #10 · answered by Creative D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋