Is almost 20 to early to want to get married. We've been together more than a year and we have a beatiful little boy together and I just know its meant to be his mother already introduces me to people as her daughter in law.
2007-05-24 18:13:49 · 8 answers · asked by reses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well although you are young sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and if the mom is already seeing you as a daughter in law that's great!
I think that if you and your BF can handle marriage and the baby then go for it,, but having said that make sure it's thought out and that you sit down with both yoru parents and your BF and his parents and talk about it.
You are still young but hey we all find love at different ages so could be that you already have if that's the case lucky you!
Take care and i hope it all works out!
2007-05-24 18:18:53 · answer #1 · answered by *Sbaby* 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Statistically the odds are against you. However, I met my husband and we startedd dating exclusively in the ninth grade. We've been together ever since and happily married for 33 years. We've had up and downs throughout these years, but as long as you love each other, communicate, and trust one another you'll have a great marriage. We married at 18. We have three kids, and I've never regreted our young marriage, ever. So as long as you are sure and you have the above strengths in your relationship, I don't think your age is too young. It's hard work, so be sure you want this before you take the plunge. Good luck with whatever choice you make!
2007-05-25 01:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by debijs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its not to early. I got engaged when I was 20 and was married a few months after my 21st birhtday. He was 26 when we got married. We were together 2 years before we got married and have now been married 2 years. We have an amazing marriage. We couldn't be happier. If you are mentally ready and emotionally ready, then there is nothing wrong with getting married young. Just remember, it is a job, you have to work at it, when it gets hard, and it will, you have to work at it. You can't give up on it just because it gets hard and it is easier to quit than work on it. And things become more difficult when you are married. You have to do deal with money issues, time issues, and so on. If you think you aren't ready to settle down, even have a tiny doubt, that you can't be faitful, not get pissed and upset that you can't go out with friends all the time, that you can't be free, that you can't do what you could when you were single, then you might be ready. Just remember, you BOTH have to work at it. and you really need to be emotionally and mentally ready for it. But goodluck...
2007-05-25 01:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've got a child together, you're already as good as married because you're going to be in each other's lives for at least the next 18 years.
I always get a chuckle out of people who have a baby together and then wonder if they're old enough or compatible enough to get married.
2007-05-25 01:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by Emily Dew 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i am almost 20 and would love to merry my girlfriend, i don't feel personally that it is too young, and having a kid together is another reason to get married as soon as possible. it will reassure that the father will stay with you to help support and care for your child. good luck to you and hopefully your future husband as well!
2007-05-25 01:24:53 · answer #5 · answered by ffpdfirefighter2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 20 Only knew him for 34 days,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,14 years later we have a wonder ful marriage 2 children ages 7 and 9 LOVE IS GREAT!!!
2007-05-25 01:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by dalejr8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DUMBDUMBDUMB. You already made a bad decision to have a kid young and out of wedlock. Dont keep making bad decisions
2007-05-25 01:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by bolt1 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
yeah, get married. do it for your son.
good luck
2007-05-25 01:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by abby j 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋