Singles & Dating - 28 April 2007

I am a therapist and I have a lot of white male clients. they often tell me that they are not happy in their relationships, which happens to be with a white woman. They tell me that they love black women; the shape of their bodies, their golden brown complexion the softness of their skin and the way they dress and smile, and would love to be in a relationship with them, but are afraid of what their friends or family may say. Why do they care?

2007-04-28 15:32:18 · 13 answers · asked by JESSICA G 4

2007-04-28 15:28:40 · 1 answers · asked by Donte Jones 1

2007-04-28 15:22:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

like if you like someone and you dont think they like you back, but its one of those feelings that you dont get around anyone else should you keep trying?
but they might like you

ps my friend wanted me 2 ask

2007-04-28 15:20:53 · 1 answers · asked by d 1

I fell in love with a 33 year old man & dated him for 1 year and a half. He has many issues: lives at home with mom, has a son(he hardly sees) who lives with the mother's parents, has no lisence, no car, and works a min. wage job & bad credit. I did not find all this out until the relationship went further. But i wanted to look past it and love him for his big heart and spirtuality. Well he recently dumped me on EASTER sunday because he says that he wanted a woman more spirtual in his life. So i told him i would go to bible study with him but he told me no "god wants me to give my life to him" (alone) But come to find out later he met some 23 yr old at church that day and begin talking to her and spent the night at her place 2 days later. I am 24 and a virgin and i thought he loved me and was waiting for me. I feel like i am not a good christian now because i study the word on my own. I feel like i gave so much of myself and he can just walk away. Why do i still love this sorry man?

2007-04-28 15:04:58 · 9 answers · asked by sweetnlow 1

2007-04-28 14:48:08 · 8 answers · asked by Robinette 1

I have a guyfriend that wants to start a relationship with me but I dont like him in that way. How do I say no nicely and still be his friend? Is this even possible?

2007-04-28 14:38:30 · 11 answers · asked by LilliMoore 1

give you the chance to? Does time really change things?

2007-04-28 14:16:11 · 19 answers · asked by Wendy C 4

In do i start humping or what

2007-04-28 13:59:53 · 19 answers · asked by rahimsmpsn 1

Me and my GF have been going out for almost 2 months. We love each other very much, but lately it's gotten very weird. Her best friend told me she was an independant type of girl so she didn't need her BF to survive; that i understood. But now she doesn't want to do anything on the w-e, we see each other at school but thats not a great place to get intimate with each other plus lately she seems to be trying to avoid me. What can i do to get her to be less independant or at least to stop ignoring me. She told me a week ago that i shouldn't underetimate her love for me and that lately she didn't feel so good, she wouldn't tell me why. Now i saw her today at her friends house... we were 4, 2 couples, her., her best, me and her best's BF (who is a good friend of my btw) and she didn't talk to me at all in 5 hours, she ignored me completly from start to finish... i don't know what to do anymore... can anyone help me clear this up in my head and try to repair this realtionship ?

2007-04-28 13:58:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

people say i am "sweet, and nice, and caring" but a lot of the girls where i am at just dont like me, mainly cause i wont change myself to fit in with them, and that i am kinda laconic.... its kinda hard to get out, cause i am on a ranch and there are a lot of chores that must be done twice a day, so i cant just go party....got any ideas?

2007-04-28 13:53:25 · 5 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5

I'm dating this guy who said he's not looking for a serious relationship right now, but we've been hanging out and dating for a month AFTEr he said that, so...what's his deal? And we're not even physical yet-do guys just say that and maybe if they like you enough, they'll change their minds?

2007-04-28 13:52:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I liked this girl a lot a year ago, and I know she liked me back. Unfortunately, I had to move across the city, so nothing ever happened. I kept thinking about her, but now she's going out with another guy and she's changed. She cares about popularity and less of her friends. How do I get over her? I currently like another girl, but this one is just someone I can't let go. It's depressing, and I find that I can't do anything but sleep sometimes, hoping that I'd wake up and everything never changed. Help me!

2007-04-28 13:51:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i really like a guy thats a different race from me, but my parents don't want me to date out of my race [i dont know why] , and he likes me too. i really like him a lot though, does anyone have any suggestions on what i should do?

2007-04-28 13:40:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy friend told me that when you first get in a relationship you're not supposed to care about the other person that much. This sounds like total bull. After all, aren't relationships based on CARING?

2007-04-28 13:39:59 · 6 answers · asked by Dear Girl 1

2007-04-28 12:49:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-28 12:47:56 · 13 answers · asked by James K 1

I know it's a bad thing.

Why am I always rejected by EVERYONE? I'm nice. No one likes me.

2007-04-28 12:38:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

After three and a half years I found out that no only was my ex-girlfriend cheating on me but she moved in with him! I gave her three weeks to get the rest of her crap out of my garage. She didn't so I pitched it. It was mostly junk anyways. My question is: Should I feel guilty or not? She said that she didn't have anywhere to put it. I told her that I didn't care. She called me two months later wondering if I still had her stuff. I said no and she hung up.

2007-04-28 12:25:17 · 7 answers · asked by Phil D. 1

OK, so I meet this girl last November and everything goes brilliantly although quite heavy quite quickly. At christmas we split up as she gets cold feet about the whole thing and starts ignoring my calls etc until we split up.

Then in Feb she says she misses me and we get back together because I miss her too. Then a few weeks ago she's not replying to texts and it's difficult to contact her again and so last week we split up - a big part of her reason being the not-exactly-peaceful relationship i have with my ex who's also the mother of my child.

Then the day after we split i get a text saying "I Love You.XXX" . Have had text conversation twice since, both times with her starting it and both times with her suddenly not responding (even though I'd finished mine with a question - like did you see that tv prog nothing to do with the relationship.)

What do I do in this situation?

2007-04-28 12:20:55 · 11 answers · asked by klaus 2

or like whats the difference?

2007-04-28 12:10:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'M 28 AND HE'S 20 GOING TO BE 21 IN SEPT. TOGETHER FOR 1 YR AND 5 MO. HE CLAIMS THAT HE CARES FOR ME ONLY. BUT HE'S REAL JEALOUS. HE SAYS THAT HE'S NEVER BEEN IN LOVE. SOMETIMES I WONDER IF IT'S JUST FOR THE SEX.

2007-04-28 11:45:47 · 1 answers · asked by chrisina s 2

right here's the deal...this chick and i have been friends as such for quit a while now, but just recently we have got really close, i mean putting my arm round her whilst watching a film and her sharing her yogurt from the same spoon sorta close you know...it's the closest I've been to a girl all my life and i really do like her, she makes me feel so alive and just awesome when I'm with her, anyway, my 2 close male friends tell me that they reckon she likes me and that i should go for it, I'm thinking i might as well too, i was thinking of just chilling with her, just me and her in a park or something with no-one else around, under the moon and stars and just telling her how i feel, like telling her, she's intelligent and beautiful and creative and how she makes me feel when I'm with her, coz i think I've only just plucked up the courage to do something about it, considering I've had no experience anyway...what do you think, any suggestions/tips or anything?

2007-04-28 11:41:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

They only spend time together if I'm at work but it's that they don't really hang out with anyone else. It's just the two of them and they'll go on boat rides or drives or just sit and talk. It's usually an extended period of time like 4-6 hrs. She never disses me to chill out with him and we all don't really hang out much together. She doesn't hide it or anything though. What's everyone think? Nothing to worry about really? I've been hurt in the past so I get sorta worried easily sometimes I think so that's why I ask.

2007-04-28 11:41:24 · 12 answers · asked by locoj98 1

2007-04-28 11:35:06 · 7 answers · asked by Prostidude 2

and will your partner know this?
serious answers only please

2007-04-28 11:30:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

no girl ever stares at me, but i was just wondering...if they did it would probably be right before they pointed and laughed.

2007-04-28 11:18:40 · 22 answers · asked by SwordDancer 5

if you want a new friend and have a yahoo messanger let me know.

2007-04-28 11:04:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend before. I am kinda shy but I am kinda outgoing too. I feel that I am not ready to have a boyfriend. I sometimes think that I will NEVER be ready to have a boyfriend. I do have crushes on a few guys at school though. I am just scared that I am going to be 17 or 18 and still single and I don't want people to make fun of me and say I am a lesbian. Because I am NOT! Is it weird to get your first boyfriend in college or around the ages of 18-21? Do you know anyone like that? I think that I am kinda pretty I know that I am not ugly!

2007-04-28 10:45:40 · 13 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2

i know i am a strong person....
but just the thought that i will not see him ever again after a couple of weeks is too much to take...
no, he's not a close friend or anything....
in fact, i have never talked to him face to face....
but i cant stop my feelings for him...
i am not even sure what kind of feelings they are
i dont even know if they are romantic feelings or what...
but i do feel something very strongly for him, and i am not sure what...

2007-04-28 10:41:35 · 7 answers · asked by a girl... 2