Me and my GF have been going out for almost 2 months. We love each other very much, but lately it's gotten very weird. Her best friend told me she was an independant type of girl so she didn't need her BF to survive; that i understood. But now she doesn't want to do anything on the w-e, we see each other at school but thats not a great place to get intimate with each other plus lately she seems to be trying to avoid me. What can i do to get her to be less independant or at least to stop ignoring me. She told me a week ago that i shouldn't underetimate her love for me and that lately she didn't feel so good, she wouldn't tell me why. Now i saw her today at her friends house... we were 4, 2 couples, her., her best, me and her best's BF (who is a good friend of my btw) and she didn't talk to me at all in 5 hours, she ignored me completly from start to finish... i don't know what to do anymore... can anyone help me clear this up in my head and try to repair this realtionship ?
2007-04-28 13:58:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She said she still loved me that she wasn't feeling well this week. But i don't what.
2007-04-28 14:04:47 · update #1
She told me that for her what was important in a relationship was communication and all of that.. but this is the total opposite... something is going on... but i can't figure out what it could be...
2007-04-28 14:06:21 · update #2
she is a lesbian
2007-04-28 14:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
first off you and her been together for 2 months. secondly your girlfriend is not independant thats an excuse so you wouldnt think that there was somthing relly happening.......the reson why she is tottaly ignoring you is because he doesnt want you in her life she is pushing you away and she has nother guy in mind that see wants to be with.......and her friend knows thats why she is covering up telling you that she is an independent type of girl..........your gf is not worth it if she is playing around behind your back and she telling you that she doesnt have feelings for you anymore and she has moved on..............you are better of with somone that really cares for you.................she is a playa she doesnt care if she hurts your feelings. i can help you find out if she has yahoo or msn if she is really cheating on you
2007-04-28 21:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by badgirlforlife007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! i feel soooo bad for you! One of my old friends had a gf like that...dude talk to her...if she isn't gonna open up to you...i'm sorry to say u gotta move on, the sooner the better. You'll get more hurt everyday more u take this! I know it's hard for you to let her go but...you have to...for your own good. :(
2007-04-28 21:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy Andrews 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hum... something is definitely goin on. but if she got mad at you for underestimating her love for you then maybe its somethin else. I would just talk to her and ask her whats goin. If things don't change I would end it. you shouldn't be treated like that, and you deserve to know whats goin on. I hope things work out for ya! good luck!
2007-04-28 21:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should take her by the hand and say WE need to talk...take her aside sit her down and start talking...tell her how u feel
2007-05-01 12:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by pixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let go.
Maybe this is her way of telling you.
2007-04-28 21:02:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋