They only spend time together if I'm at work but it's that they don't really hang out with anyone else. It's just the two of them and they'll go on boat rides or drives or just sit and talk. It's usually an extended period of time like 4-6 hrs. She never disses me to chill out with him and we all don't really hang out much together. She doesn't hide it or anything though. What's everyone think? Nothing to worry about really? I've been hurt in the past so I get sorta worried easily sometimes I think so that's why I ask.
2007-04-28 11:41:24 · 12 answers · asked by locoj98 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It does kind of bother me too by the way lol. How should I handle this?
2007-04-28 11:46:42 · update #1
I wouldn't worry about it. If you say she can't hang out with him anymore it'll just push her away.
If she loves you, she loves you. Just because she's got a male friend doesn't change that. If you are still worried about it, why don't you ask her to invite him over with you there. If he's cool around you then you know there is nothing going on. If he acts weird, then you have a right to be suspicious. If she's cool with the idea, no problem, if she's weird about it, then maybe it's time to start talking about your concerns.
Some girls just have more male friends than female. I don't relate well to females, but just because I have male friends doesn't mean I don't love my boyfriend with all my heart. I just make sure he's comfortable by introducing him to all my friends so he knows he doesn't have to worry.
2007-04-28 11:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by sadie m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason why she's with you & not him.... She prob likes him cuz he's rich & spoils her with stuff, & she likea you for your personality ... Trust me, love vs money wins... She love you & is with u. The other guy is just a friend with money, that's why she likes his attention, I don't think she has a thing with him. & never ever act insecure in front of her, you'll just give her negative ideas.. Especially telling her that she has a thing with that guy! ..never tell her that, just keep an open eye in case you do think they like each other more than friends. For the most part if it bugs you this much, confront her about her guy friend & that you don't feel comfortable having them two be so close... & that you feel like a side boyfriend... If she starts a big thing about it & at the same time you assume that she might be cheating (which I doubt it's this bad), go on a break & tell her to make up her mind as of who she really loves!
2016-04-01 00:03:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way, this girl is only interested in you! Its good that you understand that your gf can have male friends, it means that your not obsessive and girls love that (just take a look at all the questions about over possesive bf's on here)
there's nothing to worry about, shes not hiding anything
2007-04-28 11:46:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think there is a good chance u may be hurt again. think she is spending way too much time with this other guy, and eventually she is going to want to be with him. yes i think theres alot to worry about.
2007-04-28 11:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be doing that.
2014-07-13 03:37:51 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should! All girls are like that like me. Ask her a question about them and every other day keep anking her the same question and see if she give you the same answer everytime if she don't you know something is going on.
2007-04-28 11:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by mona sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I your girlfriends male friend is gay then don't worry about it. Also, if her male friend is less attractive than you, then don't worry about it. If her male friend looks just as good as you do, and isn't gay, then you might want to make sure that she isn't messing around on you.
2007-04-28 11:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by AdrianClay 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is fine if she is your girl friend don't worry! havent u seen those tv shows were girls and just really good friends with guys, kind of like hes a girl so they just hang out a lot? it is perfectly normal
p.s answer my latest question please i need help!
2007-04-28 11:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT LET IT CONTINUE!!! I made the mistake of trusting her and they ended up together. And I ended up with a broken heart.
2007-04-28 11:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by three_dee_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope unless things get out of control
2007-04-28 11:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋