Singles & Dating - 25 April 2007

Okay I am a dirt bag and I have been sorry to my ex. We had been together for nearly 2 years and I just hated my life that i didnt care what i was doing to her. I lied to her, and even embezzeled money from my job. When I got out of jail she was there and she was going to be there for me if i went to prison I have no doubt. To me that was true love because she was always going to be ther. Well I wanted to be the guy she deserved so I admitted everything to her I didnt want to be livein a lie or have any lies between us. I apologized to friends and family that i had hurt trying to change my life and be a better person. But once she found out the truth she was hurt and now its over between us. She broke up with me when I was trying to change and do the right thing, I know it hurt but wasnt i makeing the right decision. My question is do I hold on to hope and fight for her or just give her her wish and let her be and just become a silent friend? I want her to be happy

2007-04-25 04:43:44 · 1 answers · asked by shycountryboy85 3

I'm curious to see what men's opinions are on dating women who have kids. General opinions.. In particular, independant single women who aren't looking to 'replace' their kids fathers or lay the responsibility on someone else.. I have been told (by a man of course) it would be hard to find a man because I have 2 kids, and 'men dont want kids'... I think there are plenty out there willing to open up their hearts to a woman weather they have kids or not. Its just a matter of finding the right one.

2007-04-25 04:41:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am in a long distance relationship (he's in the USA, am in France) for over a year now and we are both 21. He is virgin by choice until wedding while I did it before with just 1 guy. Yesterday he said jokingly he started to have grey hair because of all the stress him being virgin still. I was kinda hurt but said nothing and then today we had a fight because he told me he wish he did it when he was younger before we met to get it done with.
I said it's not really nice for me and he was like "how is it your problem if I did it before meeting you. I don't get pissed because you had sex before meeting me do I! Is it so wrong for me thinking about it? it's easy for you you did it before!"

So should I really worry about it or not? Am really down because I happen to realise webcamming and videos isn't enough. I feel like am not giving him enough or else he wouldn't be regretting being a virgin suddenly. I know he's not a cheater so how should I be reacting instead?

2007-04-25 04:26:56 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay I have big boobs and a big butt! I am not skinny, but not fat! I want to get a breast reduction. I will be 20 in a few days and I am debating if I should or not!!??! My friends said I shouldnt (especially the guys!) Need help??!! any opinions?

2007-04-25 04:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by emily j 1

2007-04-25 03:57:05 · 25 answers · asked by brianna b 1

How much age diffrence is to much, and does it make a difference if the man is older, or the women is older?

2007-04-25 03:56:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

how do you deal with the fact youre going to be single forever, everyone of my friends is in a relationship so happy, and then im the outkast and have to watch then be happy, and to tell the honest truth ive already given up hope to find someone cz all this time working on myself and making changes and trying to find someone has been utter bullshit, i wasted my time to be in the same position, is there anyway that i can stop caring weather im with someone, and has anyone else felt this way..cz ive truly given up hope that i'll find someone cz im a lil old now..life isent fair > thats tru as hell

2007-04-25 03:45:48 · 1 answers · asked by themanthemanfrozen 2

Today is a discussion, on persona.
Do women really like bad boys, or nice
guys. Bad boys are rebels, hustlers,
and always know who to keep you
on the edge. Which in itself, makes
a woman feel comfortable. Because
he dares, or challenges you, and makes
you see yourself. And the nice guys,
are the sweet, polite, shy ones. The one
who will let you get away with, anything.
And will let ya walk all over him. Cause he
is so nice, where he hurts himself, in the
long run. With your brazen attitude.
But to him, it is so addictive. And he adores
you no matter what. Or does he ?
But yeah, what do you prefer ? The
man with the no holds bar, mentality.
From the streets of Ire, kinda guy. Or
Mr. Nice ? man with the roses in his
hand ? Best answer wins.

2007-04-25 03:16:17 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-25 03:11:46 · 2 answers · asked by nabeel k 1

2 weekends ago I went to a club with my current gf
**I've been with the current girl for 8yrs and was with the ex- for 6yrs (yes I was cheating on both and they did find out later on and $hit got messy)

-back to the story-
Come to find out the ex- is at the same club, I really didn’t know she was there until the current gf spotted her out. A few mins later the ex- spots me and the current gf, but the night ends and me nor the ex- speak.

-Here comes the funny part-
Now around 7pm last night I get a knock at my door, not recognizing the person on the other end I didn't open. About 7:10pm i get a call to my house phone it's my ex-, telling me she stop by to say hello (bull$****!)

So we have a 45min conversion about her life and about mine. So as I'm trying to end the call, she has the balls to ask if we could be friends. (For what!??!) As were talking she gets another call and I hang up on her.

-Now my question-
Ladies and gentlemen, why in this world is she calling

2007-04-25 03:01:44 · 1 answers · asked by Pecker.H 1

Ok guys, I am going on a trip to Florida to see a girl I havent seen in 10 years!!! I'm from NY. We used to go to High School together. It's awesome. We have been talking on the phone for over 2 months, and it is going real good. We like totally talk about a relationship sometimes, and I am def. attracted to her, and vice versa. So how should I go about it when down there?? I am staying with her at her condo, and we have all these things planned. Im reeeeeeally excited. So any advice?? Ok thanks in advance!!!

2007-04-25 02:56:06 · 14 answers · asked by Tim R 1

2007-04-25 02:51:42 · 61 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my gf love each other we just want to spice things up and try new things but we are kinda stuck we are more fomal basic people we need some insite what else we could do to have fun..anything would help us from going places fun in bed to going all out

2007-04-25 02:47:16 · 7 answers · asked by brandon W 2

Im in a office just had big row with boyfriend at lunch time so bad we finished after 4 years.., I need to scream and punch something!! but I cant
what can I do!!!!!!!
ARGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

2007-04-25 02:29:05 · 43 answers · asked by K*G 2

We had a problem and he didt cal me for smdays now,n 2day he call to tell me that " the past few days was hell for him without me been there"did he realy love me and meant what he was saying. or did he want to hurt me back for not calling him?Pls talk to me.

2007-04-25 02:22:44 · 10 answers · asked by beautiful 2

2007-04-25 02:18:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so i made a bet with my boyfriend. May is national teen pregnancy prevention month so we said that we wouldn't have sex at all during may. below the waist is off limits. If we make it without having sex, then he gets whatever he wants and i get whatever i want. but i dont know what to do during may...what should i do?? we still want to keep things going just no sex...so help me out here please!!??

2007-04-25 02:17:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i do'nt want my heart to be broken cause i had this crush in him since i was in the 7th grade will he use me for sex.

2007-04-25 02:12:22 · 18 answers · asked by christina b 1

My friends friend is in an abusive relationship with a guy. I dont think it is my buisness to interfear in the matters of others. I mean I dont really know her that well, she comes round my friends a few times and stuff.

I come on here regually and answer questions and seem to have a decent success rate, perhaps I should talk to her about it?

PS: She thinks she is deserving of it because she annoys him? I personally think that is a load. I was told this by my friend in confidence so I am sure this is none of my buisness but it irritates me so

2007-04-25 02:10:28 · 5 answers · asked by ChAtMaN 4

I have a dilemma and I don't know what to do..My really good friend who happens to be 38 (I am 20) told me that he is in love with me..really freaked me out..I mean he has a wife and kids.And like I love talking to him,he is a good friend to talk to and tells it like it is all the time and I can ask anything and he will tell me the truth instead of what he thinks I want to hear.The problem is my boyfriend found out and now he wants me to stop talking to this other guy and I really don't want to..but I also don't want to lose my boyfriend..HELP!!!Don't know what to do...

2007-04-25 02:10:13 · 10 answers · asked by Fluff.. 1

I am 21 years old. Tall (5'8) I weigh 140lbs. I do not have a perfect body AT ALL but it's not bad. My finance HATES my love handles (as he calls them) but I have long brown hair and blue eyes. I have dimples and I think a perfect smile. (I love my teeth) What do you think??

I do have myspace.....Samantha Garner in Virginia......

let me know.....

I just wonder if I am not getting enough credit from my finance'.......he never compliments me anymore.....

2007-04-25 02:00:11 · 19 answers · asked by Sammy G 2

I really need to know this asap

2007-04-25 01:55:02 · 21 answers · asked by 2sw33t4u 1

im jus wonderin how??

2007-04-25 01:52:47 · 12 answers · asked by Billy 1

2007-04-25 01:45:26 · 23 answers · asked by yuvi 1

I"m 47yr old,Had many experiances,well travled, live in a caravan in the country, I"m happy and out going, ride a motorbike drive a car.work full time.

2007-04-25 01:43:51 · 10 answers · asked by mafattih 1

me and him had sex and we didnt use a condom, ive been with him for years now, and we love and trust eachother...not saying i dont have to be cautious..anyhow, i had a yeast infection and we had sex with no condom can he get the yeast infection too...? well that night after we had sex i went to cvs and bought me the yeast infection medicine and it cured it, the smell went away and the itching too..then i had sex again with him this past week unprotectively and it started smelling like yeast infection again, now i have to buy the thing all over again, well can it be that i gave him the yeast infection and then he didnt treat it,i mean he knew i had it, but we just didnt know if a guy was able to contracted....no mean answers or stupid remarks people...only serious answers..please...

2007-04-25 01:40:32 · 15 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1

Has anyone out there ever seen the person they're romantically meant to be with, and knew it right away? I mean it's very mindboggling!! I was out and about, and saw a lady that i immediately thought was for me. She wasn't BEAUTIFUL, and didn't possess all the qualities i like in a lady, yet my eyes couldn't stop scoping on her. I would avert my stare, to not make her feel uncomfortable, but i couldn't stop looking over at her. Something in my mind was telling me, "red alert! red alert!" I haven't had this happen to me , and i was wondering what other people think. I don't even know if she thought the same. I believe once or twice did we lock eyes. It was just really overwhelming!

2007-04-25 01:38:17 · 1 answers · asked by snafu1 2

2007-04-25 01:34:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright guys, I need some help on what to do.. basically I met this girl online, she has seen a few of my pics, and I've seen a few of hers. Well I initiated contact first briefly, and since then she has been writing literally 10 page emails. She is constantly asking if I miss her, or feel a spark, and she wants to meet me so bad, and she is feeling a connection. Keep in mind I've never met her. She's already asking me about marriage, family values, and that she wouldn't go to medical school if it meant things working out with me.

Don't get me wrong, I write long emails back but nothing about a relationship. She talks about normal things too but it always goes back to "We have so much in common.. not to weird you out.. but I miss you, is that bad? I know we will hit it off. How about you?" Exactly what she says.

Anyway, what do you all think? Is she crazy, desperate for love, or what? Any ideas

2007-04-25 01:33:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me, because he likes someone else.

This girl...doesn't like him.

How do I make him want me back; or make him feel guilty
and sorry?

2007-04-25 01:28:31 · 25 answers · asked by Shauna. 2