Singles & Dating - 25 April 2007

Hello everyone. I have a problem and I need some help. About a year and 1/2 ago I met a wonderful guy in my Physics class in college. His name is Jon. We both like thai food, hiking, and football. We have moved into together and everything was going great until he met my parents. They said I hid him from them and embarrassed me by being racist saying I couldn't be with him because he's white. First of all I didn't hide our relationship. I told them I was seeing someone and they'd get to meet him if it turned serious. My mother is so upset because she has always wanted me to marry this guy name Tameron who is the son of her best friend and a doctor. My dad doesn't like him because of his skin color and refuses to get to know him. Help!!!

2007-04-25 08:36:44 · 18 answers · asked by conpatt1946 1

I grew up normal, or so I thought.

I had my fantasies just like any other kid. In elementary school I'd play tag with the girls and pass notes and whisper secrets and such.

I've always loved girls for how they made me feel when they were around me. But at the same time, I was shy. I would sit quietly and watch all the "cool" boys, the jerks, do whatever they wanted to the girls. And no matter how disrespectful the action, the girl would always just giggle away, like it was some kind of joke.

Not only did I hate the boy for what he had done, but then I wouldn't even like the girl anymore, for how she just let that happen.

Now I'm confused. I've never really been the kind of guy to jump at a girl like a dog lunges for a steak. I'm shy as hell, but atleast I'm respectful, and I feel like I can do so much more for a girl.

I want to love someone. But getting sexual with them makes me feel like I'm defiling them. How can I ever come to terms with my own sexuality?

2007-04-25 08:31:30 · 27 answers · asked by swoosh 5

i had a bad past love story. and since that i never to fall in love serously in guys. i do admire people but that is just the bound,not more than that.i am afraid that i might get hurt once again and this feeling make me confused when there's guy approaching me. i am seeking help from you all that how do i can put trust in a guy and how to make me believe that i should try a relationdship ?

2007-04-25 08:24:01 · 1 answers · asked by cheesy_gal 1

2007-04-25 08:16:32 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im writing bc during the summer my bf will be leaving for over a year to afghanistan. Im so sad and I love him so much. Can anyone identify and tell me how to prepare myself for this hard upcoming year? Im pretty positive I can be faithful, but how realistic do you think it is and what happens if i do meet someone? Do you think its smart being that we've been together only 7 months? I need some good advice!

2007-04-25 08:12:19 · 8 answers · asked by starlillie99 1

2007-04-25 08:12:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey every 1, i have a question. my bf came over last nite durin the middle of the nite and we stripped down to our underwear and made out. it was special, but not that special. What do I do?

2007-04-25 08:11:35 · 35 answers · asked by luv2dance432@yahoo.com 1

I've been spending time w/ my girl friend alot lately and when i say alot i mean alot, at least 7 hours a day.she asks me to come over, how do i tell her to give just a lil more space?, i really love her alot, but how much is too much?

2007-04-25 08:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the last two nights my boyfriend has been acting weird and im not sure what to think about it should I be prepared or what??

2007-04-25 08:09:06 · 26 answers · asked by Just me!!! 1

I have been crazy about this girl for going on two years. Whenever i feel like i get somewhere, like we kiss etc, we end up just doing that, but she never commits. Is she just using me?

This girllikes one of my best friends to make things worse. She never dates, or does for a few days but never lasts, and she sees multiple guys. I have no problem, if i do i don't get to have anything with her. Does she really like me?

2007-04-25 08:04:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been dating on and off for almost 3 years now and I just become more and more discouraged with each new person. I'm 31 years old and I'm looking for a life partner, not just a boyfriend. I have to be selective because I'm a divorcee and I can't repeat the same mistakes twice. Does anyone have any good solid dating advise? How do you know when you finally meet the "one"? :(

2007-04-25 08:00:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-25 07:56:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at Quiznose waiting on the line to order my sub when I spotted a beautiful brunette. I looked at her with a smile and went on with my business. I ordered my sub. So while waiting for the sub I was looking for a place to sit. There were a couple of tables with at least on person sitting there, so I preferred to share the table with this girl. I asked her if I may share the table with her. She did not mind.
She was eating a salad. After a moment of silent I wanted it to say something and get rid of this awkward moment. So I said, “I always order sub never tried their salad how does it taste?” She said “actually I cam her with the intention of getting a sub but then I tool a look at their menu and decide to try their salad. It tastes good. You should try it”
Her phones rings and there she is talking on the phone with (which I learned later) her brother. Her brother apparently asked something to which she responded “I am on Quiznose having lunch with my new boyfriend”. I jiggled and kept eating. I was in hurry to get back to work.
She was taking with her brother weather she should go to her grandfather funeral or not, etc. She realized that I was done so wrapped up her conversation with her brother saying “I gotta go now will finish this later. My date is almost done with his lunch”
When she hanged up I told her that I am sorry about her grand father. She told she doesn’t really know him and not actually her grandfather. Rather, he is her grandmother husband and she is not sure if she should go to his funeral. I told her she should. She should pay respect to the family especially her grandmother.
I then mentioned that both my parents have passed and that I spent most of my childhood with them since my father was always here (USA) most of the time. Then she asked my how long a been here for which lead to many other venues. We laughed at how I get lost on the subway when I first came and how horrible that food tasted, etc. In another word we had a good time.
I asked her for her number to keep in touch and she was happy to give it to me.
I texted her that following morning “good morning my new girlfriend” She replied and we texted back and forth. The following morning I texted her and she text me back saying “good morning sexy” I called her during lunch but she told me she was busing and she will call back and since then she never replied to any of my calls or message so I gave up on her.
CAN ANYONE EXPLAIN TO ME WHAT HAPPENED HERE? WHAT WENT WRONG? WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-04-25 07:54:56 · 4 answers · asked by EDD 2

Are dating sites really effective for finding someone special?
Few years ago I used them and got into a LTR. Now I am back on the market and not sure if things hae changed. Just check on recent opinions. One seems like a scam site that sends misleading messages on behalf of other members. Another has ads offering 6 month free if you have no luck the first 6 months. But then they may have 6 months of your money and 12 months of your wasted time.

2007-04-25 07:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1

2007-04-25 07:52:24 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-25 07:51:13 · 8 answers · asked by noahsmommy1985 1

Though I may be left without words, hoping these flowers may show how much I really appreciate you. I miss you.


opinions please. thanks a bunch.

2007-04-25 07:43:49 · 12 answers · asked by shungukusatsu 2

I always hear men complaining about how their girlfriends/wives are too plain and boring, and how they wish they were freaky and slutty when it comes to sex.... can a woman ever be TOO much for a guy? (concidering the fact that she is a normal serious woman outside the bedroom).

2007-04-25 07:40:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I see girls, cell phone in hands, all the time that seem to be talking on the phone? Are they faking to have somebody in the other line?
For me, about 90% of that is fake!
Maybe they are not talking to anybody but try to discourage any boys who will attempt to come close to them!
For real, dont laugh lol! Cuz they are always on their phone like crazy! I'm like damn, who you talking to? People like to feel important sometimes i guesss! What do you think? i'm wrong? I may be right?

2007-04-25 07:34:11 · 18 answers · asked by BlackFrenchBoy 1

Me and my bf of 4 years have been broken up for about 3 weeks now. The past couple of days I have not called him and I've been rejecting his calls. I figured if he wanted me he would call. I had my cell of yesterday on a long trip and he called 77 times and left me 35 voicemails. Is he realizing that he messed up and wants me back? Or is he just being nosy wanting to know where I am and who I am with??? PLZ NO SMART *** ANSWERS. Im too old for that!

2007-04-25 07:27:36 · 36 answers · asked by Amy S 2

Recently my boyfriend and I have been struggling. He is having a hard time trusting me for things that I have done in the past. I have never cheated on him or really given him a reason to not trust me. He says that he is having a hard time because I didnt hold his hand while in the presence of my ex and because I got drunk one evening last year and danced with another guy at the bar. He has lied to me in the past about very big things, such as having an ex wife and a child. I have been able to get past those things, but he says that he can't. We've been in a relationship now for almost 9 months and have been friends for 2 years previous to that. I dont want to just end our relationship. We had already made plans to get married and have a family. What can I do to help him get over his insecurities and focus on the future that we had planned? I've asked him about therapy but he says it wouldnt work....I am so lost and confused as to what to do....HELP!

2007-04-25 07:27:35 · 7 answers · asked by Rainy 2

How old are y'all? Just wondering (and sorta bored).

Im 30 and a boring computer job leads me to Answers far too easily.

10 points, I guess, to whoever comes closest to predicting the avg age of the responses, so why not include a guess, also.

2007-04-25 07:25:19 · 8 answers · asked by randyken 6

Its a long stry but will make it short.I Met this girl online 4 months ago and after emailing,smsing and talking we met 3 months ago,and had a few dates.Sms abt 5 time a day,talk once a day..mind u i always call her.and she wanted to go with me to her friends wedding etc..basically it was going good,although we didnt still kiss just hugs..we are both 22.
last week there was a problem,my ex gf had written to her.i was with her till abt 3 weeks ago and we broke up.so baically i was dating both of them. so anyways i said it wasnt true and i denied all charges..and i wrote loads of emails,and sms..i made a video for her and put in google.. she wanted to meet all 3 of us togther,and i said ok..and then she didnt want to..after i sent her video today,all she said was wow..thanks,u made me smile..nothing more..what to do?? how shd i proceed?? should i just leave her?? i really really like her alot! plz advise!

2007-04-25 07:23:58 · 9 answers · asked by Adrian flysss! 1

He pays most of the time when we eat. Mostly fast food, since we are both not big cookers and are both on pretty tight budgets. I am always very aware of what I am ordering and try to order as little as possible to be considerate to him, but I do still expect him to pay. I am a student who also works 30 + hours a week as a receptionist, trying to save and pay off my credit debt. He works full time, has no credit to pay off and makes much more than me. My point is that I am trying to save money for OUR future (since I am 99% sure I will spend the rest of my life with him) and I consider going to school as part of that, since As soon as I graduate I will most likely be making more than him. So is it unfair of me to ask him to pay all the time? I do "treat" him every once and awhile. Be brutally honest here. I would hate to be unfair and need an honest opinion.

2007-04-25 07:21:24 · 29 answers · asked by whattodo 1

its so pretty and it's not even that expensive i just don't want to buy it for myself!! oh poor little me!!

2007-04-25 07:14:16 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

for YOUR perfect day?

2007-04-25 07:13:17 · 23 answers · asked by Regular Guy 5

why are you on the internet insted of outside being active?

2007-04-25 07:12:59 · 65 answers · asked by Lolly ♥ 3

2007-04-25 07:12:13 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-04-25 07:11:21 · 13 answers · asked by sallyanne 3

My fiancée has a horrible addiction to TV. Every night there is a different line up. Dancing with the Stars, American Idol, Lost, The Bachelor and programs like that has her full attention every evening. If I have something to say to her, she'll pause the program for a moment but I better hurry up and say what I have to say because her hand is shaking waiting to press the resume play button. There's no time for sex or romance during the weekdays. The weekends are about the only time we have for that. That means sex only one day a week. We talked about it this morning and she said that Thursday nights there's nothing on TV and we can use that night to concentrate on each other. At this point I'll take anything I said. I know she loves me and she's very affectionate, but I would like to have more time with her where our attention is not diverted. What can I do?

2007-04-25 07:10:58 · 29 answers · asked by Northstarr 1