is 14 and 17 a big age gap? Hes 14 and am 17.?

Answer 1

I HATE SOME OF THESE ANSWERS!!!!

When I was 17 I met my boyfriend and he is 14. Im now 18 and he is almost 15 no its not a big gap and IM sick and tired of all those naive people out there thinking its wrong. If your attracted to someone by all means get with them. I was with males older than me since I was 16 and they were at least 4-5 years older and I got sick of them so I wanted a change and so when I met my boyfriend it was great and we were friends for a while then got hooked up.. Thats when I found out his age. But do you think that Imma break up with him just because of age no.. He acts mature and is nicer than some of my ex's. So if your happy then shoot screw what others have to say!

Its ok to be a 30 year old female to be with a 22 year old male.

And just because your turning 18 people think oh yall are having sex its illegal.. Relationships work with out sex get that through your minds.

Also hun people keep saying its illegal.. ITS NOT ILLEGAL UNLESS YOU ARE HAVING SEX! THEN ITS STATORY RAPE. Its not a crime to be with that person or hold hands. Its only a crime if sex is in it.

Oh and it was fine for us to be together before I was 18 and do you honestly think that Imma break up with just cause the stroke of midnight said now now ur llegal. HELL NO

Answer 2

No it's not a big AGE gap, but can a 14 yr old really be on your level? I know @ your age you still have a young mind ( I know I still did), but most 14 yr olds aren't thinking about graduation, college, and getting a job. I just don't see it working out in the end unless this person is mature for their age.

If you wanna know a big age gap, I know someone who's bf is 19/20 and she's 40.

Answer 3

HE is 14 and YOU are 17!?!?!? I wish I could have met a 17 year old girl when I was 14 that would've gone out with me. But anyways, I guess that's not that big of a gap, as long as you aren't 18 and illegal.

Answer 4

at that age yes it is a HUGE age gap, it's different than if you were 27 and he was 24 but at 14 and 17, thats too big.

Answer 5

3 years may not seem like alot...but you being a girl makes you more mature than a guy your own age let alone a 14 year old. A 14 year old is still worried about what video games are cool and how to clear up the zits on his face. I would say go older...

Answer 6

Its not big age gap, but you might want to wait till he matures a little bit before taking it to the next level. If you have already taken it to the next level you might want to think about the consequences of that. Such as you getting pregnant. Although you might like him or whatever the case may be you don't want to start nothing with you alls parents or even the law.

Answer 7

I think that is a hard question to ask. Since you both are minors it really doesn't matter. Although if a guy was dating a 14 year old girl and he was 17 he would be looked at as a child molester.

Answer 8

Nope ! Not much of difference. Some cultures in India prefer
the brides to be older then the bridegrooms because she can
take care of her husband as she is older and wiser and can manage money matters better. The age limits are set by
the society and not by nature.

Answer 9

only if your in love. it might be a big gap IF he's pushing you farther than you want to go. If he loves you for who you are, than no it isnt a really big age gap. besides, boys are two or three years less mature than girls.

Answer 10

If the guy was older it wouldn't be so bad, but a 17 year old girl and a 14 year old boy is very...odd, and somewhat disturbing.