Its a long stry but will make it short.I Met this girl online 4 months ago and after emailing,smsing and talking we met 3 months ago,and had a few dates.Sms abt 5 time a day,talk once a day..mind u i always call her.and she wanted to go with me to her friends wedding etc..basically it was going good,although we didnt still kiss just hugs..we are both 22.
last week there was a problem,my ex gf had written to her.i was with her till abt 3 weeks ago and we broke up.so baically i was dating both of them. so anyways i said it wasnt true and i denied all charges..and i wrote loads of emails,and sms..i made a video for her and put in google.. she wanted to meet all 3 of us togther,and i said ok..and then she didnt want to..after i sent her video today,all she said was wow..thanks,u made me smile..nothing more..what to do?? how shd i proceed?? should i just leave her?? i really really like her alot! plz advise!
2007-04-25 07:23:58 · 9 answers · asked by Adrian flysss! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But we were not a couple! i mean ok i had a gf then but still,its not as if we were bf and gf..we didnt even kiss! i know i screwed it up,but i really want to make it right now..if i tell the truth then she wouldnt belive me anyway becoz i denied it for 1 week.i am so confused.
2007-04-25 07:38:42 · update #1
serves you right for seeing them both at the same time
what goes around comes around
2007-04-25 07:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by BscHons 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like she has definitely cooled. Serves you right really, you should have been honest with your girlfriend at the time but you know that now i hope. Don't make the same mistake again. You need to know where you stand now and the only Way to do that is to ask her straight out. Shock her into an honest reply and act on what she says. Good luck
2007-04-25 07:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Heidi. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you'd have liked her that much you wouldn't have been continuing your relationship with your then current girlfriend. I say leave the girl alone and let her move on. It's not fair to mess around with a woman's heart just so you can still have your end away with another, or because you don't have the balls to sort things out. It sounds like she was feeling quite serious about you if she asked you to a wedding with her, but you blew it! Move on. Try being faithful from now on and good things may happen :)
2007-04-25 07:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by earthaintdying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off, I wouldn't be lying to her in this situation. Truth will come out, and you will lose her. Might as well be honest and hope for the best. It's not uncommon to date more than one person at a time, just don't make a final committment to either or them. My advice in your situation would be to write her an e-mail and "come clean". Don't let lies stand between you from the beginning.
2007-04-25 07:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just email her again and ask her what she wants to do, but be honest she probably knows your lying, so get in first and tell everything. let her know how much you like her.
2007-04-25 07:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by RACHEL B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL FOR ONE U SHOULD NOT PLAY WITH
ANYONES FEELINGS THAT WAY AND HOW
CAN U STAND THERE AND SAY U WERE
NOT WITH THE OTHER ONE AND THEN COME
OUT AND SAY OK I WAS AND THINK EVERYTHING
IS OK NOW............. HUH LETS SEE WHAT
HAPPENS WHEN IT HAPPENS TO U........ WILL
U LIKE IT??????? THE NEW CHIC SHOULD
LEAVE U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-04-25 07:32:17 · answer #6 · answered by Rosemary M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why leave her if u really really really like her??? do what feels right, but dont leave her, unless something else (bad) happens...maybe meet up with her again??
2007-04-25 07:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by SCREAM!! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay with her but dump your ex girlfriend because yall are ex's for a reson
2007-04-25 07:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the boat has gone and left you behind, a woman likes it when your honest, we hate lies
2007-04-25 07:34:49 · answer #9 · answered by jayz81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋