its so pretty and it's not even that expensive i just don't want to buy it for myself!! oh poor little me!!
2007-04-25 07:14:16 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you just buy it yourself then? Why does he have to buy it for you?
2007-04-25 07:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
One theory is that you have poor grammar. It's nothing to it with one "O", not nothing too it. He's either broke, selfish, or both. AND/OR you're TOO FUGLY for him. He may also think you're an idiot and selfish. What do you mean it's so pretty and not even that expensive? How much money do you make? Why don't you buy him a ring? You act like this is Star Trek where money doesn't exist. Pretty? The moon is pretty, but you don't expect anyone to buy it for you or do you? You think I'm just yelling at you, but there's a lesson in this. Look at yourself and you'll know why he's not buying you a ring. You don't deserve it you selfish, useless, beast. GET A JOB and stop making your boyfriend miserable. And take a cooking class.
2007-04-25 07:25:15 · answer #2 · answered by asdf104928408kdjr482obthaw 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh "poor little you" is right!! How pathetic of you to expect your boyfriend to buy you a ring....let alone you telling him that you want one!! If it won't mean "anything serious" then whats the problem with you buying it for yourself?? I think that it's darn presumptuious of you to feel that he HAS to buy you anything at all!! His love and devotion cost NOTHING and hold more of a value to the person it's directed at...so if you have that outta him that's all you should need.....i'm thinking that perhaps your a tad too materialistic and you know the lable that comes with that??? "GOLD-DIGGER".......
If your too cheap to buy it yourself don't expect someone else to get it for you!! Your question was a "bad taste" question to say the least!!
2007-04-25 07:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by red_rkt 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So when we see your boyfriend saying "Why won't my girlfriend buy me a new PC, it isn't too expensive?, we shouldn't be surprised by you agreeing to buy it just because he asked? Maybe he doesn't have the money (remember that it doesn't grow on trees), he bought it but is waiting for a reason to give it as a gift, or he doesn't want to be told what to do. While it isn't unreasonable to ask your significant other to buy things, to whine about it indicates that you are pretty spoiled. Let the gifts be "gifts", not demands.
2007-04-25 07:22:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jim Maryland 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why do some of you girls want to force your bf's to buy you stuff.
This is why guys treat some females like crap.
If someone wants to do something they're going to do it out of their own will.
And if the ring is not expensive then buy it yourself......better yet if you dont want to buy it then give a friend the money and tell them to go purchase it. Get over it!
2007-04-25 07:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by Jocelyn's mommy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's a different kind of a guy. Maybe he thinks buying u a ring, means buying ur love....since u said it's nothing serious.
2007-04-25 07:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by bojandzukovski 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because there is no way you can convince a man that a ring of any sort isn't really a circle of commitment.
Or at least most men.
Just tell him that if he does something nice and selfless for you, that you might be more inclined to do something nice and selfless for him.
2007-04-25 07:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more considerate of your boyfriend's feelings - the ring may not symbolize anything to you, but obivously it does symbolize something to him, and it symbolize an intimacy that he's not ready to make yet.
Also, it's unreasonable to expect that he provide you with every little thing you want, especially if you're perfectly capable of providing it for yourself. If you really want it, go buy it for yourself. Try to appreciate your boyfriend for himself, for what he can give you that can't be bought.
2007-04-25 07:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get over it and buy it yourself bc there's no way you'll get him to buy it for you. Men have issues buying rings when they want to. If he's not thinking along those lines, there's no way his wallet's coming out for a ring
2007-04-25 07:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by lehua 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels like it is too big of a step and doesn't want to take it. It could also be that you are sort of demanding it and he would rather buy you something as a suprise, not as a demand. Or maybe he is saving his money for something bigger and better? Just lay off him or you'll chase him off.
2007-04-25 07:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by JanksGirl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Come on Sweetheart, If you really want that ring and it's not that expensive.....
BE A WOMAN & GET IT YOURSELF!!!!
Hopefully, you are young and don't understand what it means yet to be a strong, self-reliant, independant W O M A N...
Is this the issue, or is the issue, that you want him to b u y you something to show that he really likes you.
I don't mean to come down hard on you, but
come on...................
2007-04-25 07:20:44 · answer #11 · answered by sunshinek 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋